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thing2of2|1324315669|3084603 said:asscherisme|1324313947|3084578 said:I say cruel. I wonder what percent of people here say its cruel vs funny have kids. I say cruel because I would never do that to my kids.
I wonder what percent of people who think it's cruel had bad childhoods or bad relationships with their parents growing up. I think that's coloring a lot of the "cruel" responses.
I had a good relationship with my parents growing up so them pulling this same joke on me wouldn't have harmed me or our relationship in any way.
Not for me. I had a wonderful relationship with both my mother and my father. I think they both would have seen this as mean spirited though and would have never done it to me. I would have never done it to my kids either.
It is a valid point though. People that have experienced some sort of cruelty are probably ultra-sensitive to it.