Date: 7/28/2008 4:13:03 AM
Author: jewelerman
On the day you met would be a great day to give her the ring as a gift.But on a holiday or birthday...no...the ring is a ring of engagement...not a birthday or christmas ring...i agree that the engagement is an event unto itself.
Date: 7/27/2008 3:07:33 PM
Author:azbuyer
If I propose on the anniversary of when we met, does the engagement ring count as my present?
Just wondering if that is a bit cheap and like trying to do a 2-for-1 deal....same goes for proposing on one''s birthday, etc...
Actually, I totally agree with all of this! If you''re going to be proposing anyway and your anniversary is soon, then I''d consider proposing beforehand. Not only will this surprise her (she might be expecting it ON the anniversary), then you''ll both be happy on your anniversary -- and she''ll probably be more relaxed, to boot.Date: 7/30/2008 4:39:33 PM
Author: trillionaire
Date: 7/27/2008 3:07:33 PM
Author:azbuyer
If I propose on the anniversary of when we met, does the engagement ring count as my present?
Just wondering if that is a bit cheap and like trying to do a 2-for-1 deal....same goes for proposing on one''s birthday, etc...
I thought women LIKED to be proposed to on their anniversaries! Because after you get married, you no longer commemorate that day, so it kind of gives it a special memory and importance that is always going to be remembered... then on to wedding planning and the big day, lol!
however, I will say that from the LIW board, women get very worked up for birthdays, holidays and anniversaries assuming that boyfriends will propose on those days. So if you are going for a complete surprise, do it just before or just after your anniversary, and she probably won''t see it coming! It would be fabulous to celebrate your anniversary as an engaged couple, and I am sure that would make it THE most special anniversary. (if you propose ON your anniversary, it is going to be hi-jacked by her calling everyone that she knows, trying to take pictures of the ring and sending them to people, etc!) If you propose before the anni, you can get a small sentimental gift, or anything related to wedding planning (future- Mrs. _____ stuff), or something like that. She will eat it up! If you want to go expensive, maybe buy a session for an engagement photo shoot
Lastly, if you are NOT proposing for your anniversary, but you KNOW that she is expecting a proposal soon, try to be careful not to say or do things that will lead her to believe that you are. You don''t want her to cry herself to sleep from disappointment. (yes, this happens, no it is not always the fault of the guy, but a lot of women get really amped up thinking it is coming, and they fall apart when it does not.)
*sorry this was long... *
Date: 7/30/2008 4:39:33 PM
Author: trillionaire
Date: 7/27/2008 3:07:33 PM
Author:azbuyer
If I propose on the anniversary of when we met, does the engagement ring count as my present?
Just wondering if that is a bit cheap and like trying to do a 2-for-1 deal....same goes for proposing on one''s birthday, etc...
I thought women LIKED to be proposed to on their anniversaries! Because after you get married, you no longer commemorate that day, so it kind of gives it a special memory and importance that is always going to be remembered... then on to wedding planning and the big day, lol!
however, I will say that from the LIW board, women get very worked up for birthdays, holidays and anniversaries assuming that boyfriends will propose on those days. So if you are going for a complete surprise, do it just before or just after your anniversary, and she probably won''t see it coming! It would be fabulous to celebrate your anniversary as an engaged couple, and I am sure that would make it THE most special anniversary. (if you propose ON your anniversary, it is going to be hi-jacked by her calling everyone that she knows, trying to take pictures of the ring and sending them to people, etc!) If you propose before the anni, you can get a small sentimental gift, or anything related to wedding planning (future- Mrs. _____ stuff), or something like that. She will eat it up! If you want to go expensive, maybe buy a session for an engagement photo shoot
Lastly, if you are NOT proposing for your anniversary, but you KNOW that she is expecting a proposal soon, try to be careful not to say or do things that will lead her to believe that you are. You don''t want her to cry herself to sleep from disappointment. (yes, this happens, no it is not always the fault of the guy, but a lot of women get really amped up thinking it is coming, and they fall apart when it does not.)
*sorry this was long... *
Date: 7/30/2008 4:39:33 PM
Author: trillionaire
Date: 7/27/2008 3:07:33 PM
Author:azbuyer
If I propose on the anniversary of when we met, does the engagement ring count as my present?
Just wondering if that is a bit cheap and like trying to do a 2-for-1 deal....same goes for proposing on one''s birthday, etc...
I thought women LIKED to be proposed to on their anniversaries! Because after you get married, you no longer commemorate that day, so it kind of gives it a special memory and importance that is always going to be remembered... then on to wedding planning and the big day, lol!
however, I will say that from the LIW board, women get very worked up for birthdays, holidays and anniversaries assuming that boyfriends will propose on those days. So if you are going for a complete surprise, do it just before or just after your anniversary, and she probably won''t see it coming! It would be fabulous to celebrate your anniversary as an engaged couple, and I am sure that would make it THE most special anniversary. (if you propose ON your anniversary, it is going to be hi-jacked by her calling everyone that she knows, trying to take pictures of the ring and sending them to people, etc!) If you propose before the anni, you can get a small sentimental gift, or anything related to wedding planning (future- Mrs. _____ stuff), or something like that. She will eat it up! If you want to go expensive, maybe buy a session for an engagement photo shoot
Lastly, if you are NOT proposing for your anniversary, but you KNOW that she is expecting a proposal soon, try to be careful not to say or do things that will lead her to believe that you are. You don''t want her to cry herself to sleep from disappointment. (yes, this happens, no it is not always the fault of the guy, but a lot of women get really amped up thinking it is coming, and they fall apart when it does not.)
*sorry this was long... *