If you were getting married tomorrow ...

[kenny]

will you be able to survive ?

 

[AprilBaby]

Survive what?

 

[madelise]

No. He'd take all my money and run. I'd be too emotionally weak to survive having to share my moneys.

 

[Dancing Fire]

sure!! if i married a rich woman...

 

[chrono]

I don't understand the question. Survive what? Why would my life be in danger?

ETA
I see that this question is the opposite of DF's divorce question. Marriage is a happy union of two people so I don't see why there should be any pain or suffering involved unless the in-laws are an issue.

 

[maccers]

I don't understand the question. Survive what? Why would my life be in danger?

ETA
I see that this question is the opposite of DF's divorce question. Marriage is a happy union of two people so I don't see why there should be any pain or suffering involved unless the in-laws are an issue.

Hahaha my first time checking in to hangout today. Now I get it!

 

[Laila619]

If I were getting married tomorrow, I'd be a polygamist!

 

[Dancing Fire]

If I were getting married tomorrow, I'd be a polygamist!

never too late...

 

[TooPatient]

Yes!

Well... not quite tomorrow but October!

Of course having him move in with me took a fair amount of adjusting...
The snoring. The hot/cold room debates. The blanket tugging. And he's a middle squeezer -- the toothpaste has never been the same since

 

[Missy]

Yes!

Well... not quite tomorrow but October!

Of course having him move in with me took a fair amount of adjusting...
The snoring. The hot/cold room debates. The blanket tugging. And he's a middle squeezer -- the toothpaste has never been the same since

LOL. I hear you TooPatient. When we first got married and moved in together it was quite the adjustment!! I was very set in my ways and it took a bit of time to get used to living together. But I am happy to report we have survived getting married and still going strong. In fact, stronger and happier each year if that is possible.

May I recommend separate bathrooms if possible. It really does wonders for the relationship IMO.

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding TP!!!

 

[rosetta]

Missy, you are absolutely right about separate bathrooms: we have this now, and it's a GODSEND. We stay completely out of each others bathrooms, it's our own personal havens. Our future home's number one criterion is separate bathrooms, dressing rooms and offices.

If I was getting married tomorrow, I'd be ecstatic. As long as it was to my husband again!

 

[Laila619]

Yes!

Well... not quite tomorrow but October!

Of course having him move in with me took a fair amount of adjusting...
The snoring. The hot/cold room debates. The blanket tugging. And he's a middle squeezer -- the toothpaste has never been the same since

LOL. I hear you TooPatient. When we first got married and moved in together it was quite the adjustment!! I was very set in my ways and it took a bit of time to get used to living together. But I am happy to report we have survived getting married and still going strong. In fact, stronger and happier each year if that is possible.

May I recommend separate bathrooms if possible. It really does wonders for the relationship IMO.

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding TP!!!

YES!!! I love having my own bathroom.

 

[TooPatient]

Yes!

Well... not quite tomorrow but October!

Of course having him move in with me took a fair amount of adjusting...
The snoring. The hot/cold room debates. The blanket tugging. And he's a middle squeezer -- the toothpaste has never been the same since

LOL. I hear you TooPatient. When we first got married and moved in together it was quite the adjustment!! I was very set in my ways and it took a bit of time to get used to living together. But I am happy to report we have survived getting married and still going strong. In fact, stronger and happier each year if that is possible.

May I recommend separate bathrooms if possible. It really does wonders for the relationship IMO.

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding TP!!!

Separate bathrooms! I dream of those!
Unfortunately we've got 2 1/2 bathrooms so I've got my choice of the master bath (shared with FI, cramped shower), the bath in the hall (shared with "A" -- a 13 yr old girl ), or the 1/2 bath downstairs where one of the cats insists on pooing on the floor....

We're already talking about some day (like in 10 years) doing a major house remodel. My biggest plans are for a master suite that would include his & hers bathrooms!

 

[Missy]

Yes!

Well... not quite tomorrow but October!

Of course having him move in with me took a fair amount of adjusting...
The snoring. The hot/cold room debates. The blanket tugging. And he's a middle squeezer -- the toothpaste has never been the same since

LOL. I hear you TooPatient. When we first got married and moved in together it was quite the adjustment!! I was very set in my ways and it took a bit of time to get used to living together. But I am happy to report we have survived getting married and still going strong. In fact, stronger and happier each year if that is possible.

May I recommend separate bathrooms if possible. It really does wonders for the relationship IMO.

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding TP!!!

Separate bathrooms! I dream of those!
Unfortunately we've got 2 1/2 bathrooms so I've got my choice of the master bath (shared with FI, cramped shower), the bath in the hall (shared with "A" -- a 13 yr old girl ), or the 1/2 bath downstairs where one of the cats insists on pooing on the floor....

We're already talking about some day (like in 10 years) doing a major house remodel. My biggest plans are for a master suite that would include his & hers bathrooms!

TP, honestly, my recommendation would be to have your dh share the bathroom with his daughter and you get the master bathroom to yourself. After all, 10 years is a long time to wait. It really makes a big difference having your own bathroom-for the health of the marriage and all it is worth it. Men don't care that much and "A" is 13 years old. So no offense, but your choice takes precedence IMO.

 

[MichelleCarmen]

Yes!

Well... not quite tomorrow but October!

Of course having him move in with me took a fair amount of adjusting...
The snoring. The hot/cold room debates. The blanket tugging. And he's a middle squeezer -- the toothpaste has never been the same since

LOL. I hear you TooPatient. When we first got married and moved in together it was quite the adjustment!! I was very set in my ways and it took a bit of time to get used to living together. But I am happy to report we have survived getting married and still going strong. In fact, stronger and happier each year if that is possible.

May I recommend separate bathrooms if possible. It really does wonders for the relationship IMO.

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding TP!!!

Separate bathrooms! I dream of those!
Unfortunately we've got 2 1/2 bathrooms so I've got my choice of the master bath (shared with FI, cramped shower), the bath in the hall (shared with "A" -- a 13 yr old girl ), or the 1/2 bath downstairs where one of the cats insists on pooing on the floor....

We're already talking about some day (like in 10 years) doing a major house remodel. My biggest plans are for a master suite that would include his & hers bathrooms!

hahaha I never thought of seperate bathrooms making or breaking a marriage. We also have 2 1/2 bathrooms...dh's & mine full bath, a second full bath that my two boys use - ugh!, and the third, which is the cat's bathroom/litter box room. Luckily he uses the litter box but scatters litter everywhere so I'd never want to keep face creams/make-up in there. I guess it's kind of high-maintaince to ask for a house with 3 1/2 bathrooms, but I would be okay being called that to have my own bathroom. Actually we need 4 1/2 bathrooms, so when friends come over, they have a bathroom they can use that isn't also the cat-litter room!

 

[MichelleCarmen]

will you be able to survive ?

I might not survive.

 

[rosetta]

Yes!

Well... not quite tomorrow but October!

Of course having him move in with me took a fair amount of adjusting...
The snoring. The hot/cold room debates. The blanket tugging. And he's a middle squeezer -- the toothpaste has never been the same since

LOL. I hear you TooPatient. When we first got married and moved in together it was quite the adjustment!! I was very set in my ways and it took a bit of time to get used to living together. But I am happy to report we have survived getting married and still going strong. In fact, stronger and happier each year if that is possible.

May I recommend separate bathrooms if possible. It really does wonders for the relationship IMO.

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding TP!!!

Separate bathrooms! I dream of those!
Unfortunately we've got 2 1/2 bathrooms so I've got my choice of the master bath (shared with FI, cramped shower), the bath in the hall (shared with "A" -- a 13 yr old girl ), or the 1/2 bath downstairs where one of the cats insists on pooing on the floor....

We're already talking about some day (like in 10 years) doing a major house remodel. My biggest plans are for a master suite that would include his & hers bathrooms!

hahaha I never thought of seperate bathrooms making or breaking a marriage. We also have 2 1/2 bathrooms...dh's & mine full bath, a second full bath that my two boys use - ugh!, and the third, which is the cat's bathroom/litter box room. Luckily he uses the litter box but scatters litter everywhere so I'd never want to keep face creams/make-up in there. I guess it's kind of high-maintaince to ask for a house with 3 1/2 bathrooms, but I would be okay being called that to have my own bathroom. Actually we need 4 1/2 bathrooms, so when friends come over, they have a bathroom they can use that isn't also the cat-litter room!

That's not high maintenance. That's just common sense and good life planning!

 

[diamondseeker2006]

No, because my husband would probably kill me if I married someone else tomorrow!

 

[Dreamer_D]

If I were getting married tomorrow, I'd be a polygamist!

That seems appealing to me sometimes. We could really use another wife in our family.

 

[Laila619]

If I were getting married tomorrow, I'd be a polygamist!

That seems appealing to me sometimes. We could really use another wife in our family.

LOL! I wouldn't mind one whose only duty would be to cook meals!

 

[Missy]

If I were getting married tomorrow, I'd be a polygamist!

That seems appealing to me sometimes. We could really use another wife in our family.

LOL! I wouldn't mind one whose only duty would be to cook meals!

What you ladies need is a chef and/ or maid
I would not be good in a polygamist relationship. I don't share well.

 

[SB621]

I'm not sure if I would survive because it would be pretty damn depressing seeing how much weight I have put on in 6 years (yes yes ok so I also had 2 children but still.....) since I got married.

 

[Jennifer W]

No, I couldn't survive for long if I got married tomorrow. I'd be prosecuted, then convicted, then struck off by the Law Society, so then I'd be unemployed. Also homeless, since although my husband is a nice man, that would stretch his patience a little...