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If you could build your perfect partner

1. Moral Integrity

2. Passionate (about life/hobbies/causes etc)
3. Funny great sunse of humor

4. Kind/compassionate

5. Good body/ sex appeal

Funny that my top is a brief desciption of my DH. He didn't love animals until I came along. He's not perfect but neither am I. Together we are the perfect combo.
 
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1. Must love pets (This makes sure they are also kind, compassionate, and have shared interests.)
2. Intelligent (Which would also imply faithful since they would know divorce law would make it very unwise to not be faithful!)
3. Generous
4. Passionate
5. Good listener

Great timing for this! I was just thinking about my hospital stay last year (as we near the one year mark from that!) and had the thought that the trait that often frustrates me about DH is one of the things that was very helpful during that difficult week plus the weeks/months that followed. His ability to push emotion aside and deal with a situation really helped as I was going through countless tests and scheduled for surgery. He was able to use his phone to research possible options, get information about the surgery they were planning to do, confirm that I was in one of the top hospitals in the world for the surgery, keep track of all of the results/schedule/etc.

Sometimes the traits that seem least endearing are the ones we need the most!
 
Honestly, the thing that's missing from everyone I've been with that it's been 95% me doing all the work for the home/kids. So yeah, that would be my #1. HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
This so funny! :lol:
 
1. Humility
2. Good sense of humor (doesn't take himself too seriously)
3. Faithfulness
4. Kind, compassionate
5. Moral integrity (shared value system)

This is just a start. I am very picky. DH has all of these, plus he's hot and he buys me rocks, lol.
 
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In my younger years some of those choices might have prevailed, (some guys only had #6 going for them ...) but after 25 very happy years of marriage., I can get my essential list to 4 .. no particular order:
Sense of humor
Intelligence
Kind/compassionate
Integrity
 
I'm too old for this. All I'd add to the current perfect model would be that he came from a rich family and had a trust fund. There, that's literally all we need. :lol-2:
 
1. Funny/Great sense of humor

2. Kind/Compassionate

3. Must love pets & kids

4. Faithfulness

5. Romantic

This was hard! Basically I want this... :love:
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1 Hardworking (a first requirement by a long stretch, and one you didn't list. Nothing sexier than a hardworking man!)
2 Kind/Compassionate
3 Good sense of humor
4 Intelligent
5 Sexy

Some of these lend themselves to the others I didn't list!
 
In no particular order:

Intelligent
Funny/GSOH
Shared Interests
Must love pets
Passionate

DK :))
 
Shameless showoff of my "perfect" man.
If I could build him from scratch I couldn't have done a better job. :kiss2:
Please share your "perfect" partner photos too!

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My list is short...
That I love him beyond words and he feels the same way about me.

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Definitely one of those Non Negotiables.
 
Shameless showoff of my "perfect" man.
If I could build him from scratch I couldn't have done a better job. :kiss2:
Please share your "perfect" partner photos too!

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What a beautiful couple !

I see a quality here that wasn't listed, and it shines out of both of you: SINCERITY.
I love that.
 
1. Funny (if you don't make me laugh, it's not going to last)
2. Intelligent
3. Kind, and I would say being honest is a form of kindness so that's very important
4. He has integrity (doing the right thing even when it's difficult is a huge deal for me)
5. Loves animals and children. I think they love him more than me lol!
 
Faithful & Moral are tied together, in my world.

Must love kids/animals

Shared interests

Loving, Kind, Generous & Compassionate go together in my world, too.

Ambition/Driven/Motivated to succeed & meet goals.

ETA: a bonus is sense of humor...lol!
And I married him. ;)2
 
Must love pets/kids. That's a dealbreaker.
Intelligent
Generous
Kind/compassionate
Good body/sex appeal

If he laughs at my jokes that's a plus.

My grandmother told me, "Doberman it's just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as a poor man". Given my fondness for diamonds perhaps I should have paid closer attention to her.:lol:
 
Fun thread, Missy!

Intelligent
Funny/Great sense of humor
Kind/Compassionate
Must love pets and/or kids
Moral Integrity (I figure faithfulness falls under moral integrity!)

ETA: I'd say my husband has all of the above PLUS good body/sex appeal (he's nearly 50 but has the body of a chiseled 25-year-old soccer player! Not fair...as I'm more, uh, matronly.). But he can be a little conditional or selective about when he's kind/compassionate. It's a point of contention for us sometimes, but I try to remember that he had a very rough childhood completely lacking in kindness/compassion, and that has had an effect on him.
 
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#2, #4, #5, #12, and #14
 
In descending order of importance:

1. Moral integrity and faithfulness (I reckon these two go together)

2. Intelligence

3. Good listener

4. Handsome/into fitness/ good in bed (again these go together, IMO)

5. Shared interests
 
Dang, this was hard to narrow down.

1. Intelligent
2. Funny/Great sense of humor
3. Kind/Compassionate
4. Must love pets and/or kids
5. Moral Integrity (which includes faithfulness and honesty in my book).

I’m very lucky that my husband loves animals even half as much as I do. He grew up in a family that treated them like objects. If it causes trouble, you get rid of it. :(sad He turned out to be the most compassionate of animal lovers. He found one of our cats as a baby...locked up in a cat trap on a cold, rainy, winter day (the property owner was trying to catch the feral cats to get rid of them). He stopped working and brought her home. I never loved him more than I did in that moment. :kiss2:
 
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But occasionally I have a day where I’m feeling particularly witchy and it’s more like this...

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1. Funny
2. Generous
3. Good in bed
4. Passionate (about politics, lack of religion, access for all people)
5. Moral integrity
 
It would be my husband!

smart, a great father, a sense of humor, diligent, grumpy, cheap at times, intelligent, brilliant, kind, pain in the ass etc. and I would say this only from my young years when one is dating, a compatible sex drive... sorry if I offended anyone.

Those that sound negative about my perfect partner are needed for me, I would not have saved as much as we did for retirement, I would have been a much worse 'helicopter' mother, I would slack off more.. we are ying and yang at times, but we complement each other so I lucked out the second time in a life partner.
 
2. Funny/Great sense of humor

5. Kind/Compassionate

12. Must love pets and/or kids

13. Faithfulness & 14. Moral Integrity go together

16. Romantic


I finally narrowed it down :praise:
 
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