I would love to propose to My Boyfriend..Please help!

[Melyssa]

My boyfriend and I are a long-distance couple..We have been together for two years, and have already discussed marriage. He flys down to see me once every year on my birthday. I would love to make a proposal as special as possible. I wish a few people who read this, would please give their input! Also, I need a male opinion on if this is a right thing to do or not... Or if the guy should stick to the proposing.

Melyssa

 

[Lanee]

Am I to understand you only see each other once a year? If so, how long is the distance?

 

[Melyssa]

Well, my birthday is in July, so quite a long distance. However, we have managed to keep things good with our relationship. We're very close.

 

[Melyssa]

I live in Texas, and he lives in New York. We have busy schedules. He works, and I attend school.

 

[Melyssa]

I'm considering about doing it on the internet, or calling up the radio station he likes, and do it that way... But, do I buy him a ring? I'm sort of lost in what to do!

 

[Lanee]

I tell the same thing to men--don't you want to see the reaction on his face and in his eyes? I don't think an engagement ring per say, but I would imagine you should have the intended wedding bad as a gesture of seriousness or maybe something you would give as a wedding gift like, an expensive watch and have it engraved with the proposal and the date (the equivalent of an engagement ring for a man?). I alway thought if I were to ask my guy (not going to happen) I would buy him a watch. That's what I wanted to give him as a wedding gift before we say I do but he has repeatedly suggested a big screen plasma television.

I just read your PM, the scrapbook idea is better than the chat.

 

[Heyjud]

Hi Melyssa...
We're in the new millenium
The rules are all brand new
Don't wait around for him to ask
You can "pop the question" too!

Good luck