I received my dream 25 year anniversary ring last month it is a 3.01 carat EC. I thought I just wanted a simple solitaire setting but it seems to be so lightweight that it almost feels like a toy ring. also it spins on my finger. now I am wanting a more substantial setting for my lovely diamond. the problem is that I know my husband is NOT going to let me send this diamond off ANYWHERE to be set. there are no local jewelers that could handle this. I bought the diamond from ritani and love it but not the setting. I know I could go back to ritani and get another setting but I think I want a tacori setting I found on Since 1910. does anyone know about just buying the setting from them and then I could have it set myself?