dec2410
Shiny_Rock
- Joined
- Sep 5, 2007
- Messages
- 499
so my boyfriend had a rocky few months, last year at this time and i really didn't know if we were gonna make it. i made it to #3 on the LIW list when i asked to be removed because my boyfriend and i had no business talking about marriage in the condition we were in. we went through some more rough months but early this summer we turned a new leaf and things have been better than they were even in our "honeymoon phase". in the past, marriage talk always scared the bf and you could tell he had a bit of hesitation whenever we talked about it, but now talks are going full force ahead, with absolutely NO hesitation (actually, he brings it up almost everytime we're together...ie. where should we live? should we live in a 1 or 2 bedroom? who do you want at the wedding...etc).
so as of this past week or so, we talked about getting married in the fall so i'm expecting a early spring proposal maybe. he's hinted recently that he needs to SAVE every penny he has and started taking all the overtime he can. he also hinted that he was talking about "a friend" who was working with a jeweler. out of genuine curiosity, i asked him who the friend was (i'm nosy and i wanted to know who was looking to propose...heheh) and he just gave me this sneaky look and said "wouldn't you like to know..?!" i keep telling myself that it won't be til the spring at least b/c i don't want to get my hopes up. but over the next month we have my birthday (next sat), xmas then our 4-year anniversary (1/2). he's planned something for my birthday and he won't tell me anything, so the wheels in my head keep turning....but again, i don't want to get my hopes up.
life is so fabulously grand, i feel like i could fly. haha.
so yes, this was a really long version of saying that i would like BACK on the list. hopefully this time, i won't make it to #3 before requested to come off it again!