You were all very supportive in my last thread about proposing to my partner, and I am hoping you can help me out again today.
I was going to propose to her while in Altantic City on June 26. I have tickets to see Joel McHale at the Borgata and everything was planned. I got an email yesterday from Comcast Tix that the show is postponed until July 17th due to a "scheduling conflict". I already have the ring and waiting a month was going to be hard, but I could do it. Waiting 2 months is completely out of the question.
Now I need to come up with a plan B. I wanted to take her away somewhere when I propose. I didn''t want to do it at home because there is just something special about getting away for a weekend. Unfortunately, we have a lot going on in the coming weeks, and the earliest I can take her somewhere is the weekend of June 12-13. I was thinking of booking a room at the beach. Since I was going to wait until June 26 anyway, I figure June 12 isn''t too bad.
However, there is a strong part of me that wants to give it to her sooner than that. I love her so much and I know she wants to be engaged. She has NO idea that I have the ring, so she will be completely surprised either way. A majority of my friends are encouraging me to do it this weekend. They are reminding me that life is short and I could die tomorrow. We have plans tonight and tomorrow night, so I am not sure that I can do it then. We are going to brunch on Sunday morning, and I was thinking we could take a walk and see how things go.
I just don''t know what to do. I am not girly at all, and I can honestly say that I don''t know how girls think. If I have learned anything from this forum, it is that girls think about a proposal all the time.
So I am asking you...would you rather be proposed to at home in a "spur of the moment" type thing...or would you rather be taken away for a romantic weekend somewhere?
I was going to propose to her while in Altantic City on June 26. I have tickets to see Joel McHale at the Borgata and everything was planned. I got an email yesterday from Comcast Tix that the show is postponed until July 17th due to a "scheduling conflict". I already have the ring and waiting a month was going to be hard, but I could do it. Waiting 2 months is completely out of the question.
Now I need to come up with a plan B. I wanted to take her away somewhere when I propose. I didn''t want to do it at home because there is just something special about getting away for a weekend. Unfortunately, we have a lot going on in the coming weeks, and the earliest I can take her somewhere is the weekend of June 12-13. I was thinking of booking a room at the beach. Since I was going to wait until June 26 anyway, I figure June 12 isn''t too bad.
However, there is a strong part of me that wants to give it to her sooner than that. I love her so much and I know she wants to be engaged. She has NO idea that I have the ring, so she will be completely surprised either way. A majority of my friends are encouraging me to do it this weekend. They are reminding me that life is short and I could die tomorrow. We have plans tonight and tomorrow night, so I am not sure that I can do it then. We are going to brunch on Sunday morning, and I was thinking we could take a walk and see how things go.
I just don''t know what to do. I am not girly at all, and I can honestly say that I don''t know how girls think. If I have learned anything from this forum, it is that girls think about a proposal all the time.
So I am asking you...would you rather be proposed to at home in a "spur of the moment" type thing...or would you rather be taken away for a romantic weekend somewhere?