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Ideal_Rock
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One of my gals just asked me to meet her for lunch, which was odd since she works on the other side of town, so I kind of thought something might be up. She''s having $ problems related to her ex-fiance and she doesn''t feel like she can commit to the wedding right now. I told her it would be ok... that No, I wasn''t mad at her! I have no idea why she thought I would be! And that she didn''t really have to decide right now if she didn''t want to. Dresses don''t need to be ordered until May, so she has time, but apparently all the gals were discussing the shower, bachelorette, etc... and she doesn''t want to help plan something expensive that she can''t contribute to. So right now she''s out but she knows she can say she wants in before May.
She was worried I''d be freaked about matching numbers, but since we have a jr. bm we actually had one more girl than gm anyway, so that''s not a concern... nor would it have been. I felt so bad that she was so worked up about it she was crying! I think I handled it ok, since it seemed to calm her down a lot. I hope she does decide to participate... I even told her I''d help her with the deposit on her dress if she needed me to, but she''s so upset at him right now she''s not really thinking clearly. It was a very emotional lunch!
She was worried I''d be freaked about matching numbers, but since we have a jr. bm we actually had one more girl than gm anyway, so that''s not a concern... nor would it have been. I felt so bad that she was so worked up about it she was crying! I think I handled it ok, since it seemed to calm her down a lot. I hope she does decide to participate... I even told her I''d help her with the deposit on her dress if she needed me to, but she''s so upset at him right now she''s not really thinking clearly. It was a very emotional lunch!