I have breast cancer.

[Daisys and Diamonds]

Thank you from one strong b*tch to another!!!

I spoke to the principal of our daughter’s school a few days ago. She assured me that she will personally keep communication open between herself and A, who is taking an early (before classes officially start every morning) accelerated math class that the principal herself is teaching, so they can maintain an open line of communication. That made me feel much better.

Unfortunately, my ex spouse has obtained a protective order which means I’m not allowed to come near any place they typically go. Nor am I allowed to send digital messages or snail mail, or anything. He has waged full warfare. I never thought he would go this far.

I’ve turned the other cheek so much that my neck has broken. I’ve always felt sorry for him. I still do.

Yes! I have lots of friends (women!) I can count on who are holding me up now and supporting me. We’ve all done so for each other. It’s my turn, and I’ll get better and do it again for them.

Honestly what a piece of sh*t that man is
I'm disgusted
This is the cruelest thing
What on earth is wrong with him ?
I know stress is not good for you right now
I'm so angry this is happening

 

[monarch64]

Honestly what a piece of sh*t that man is
I'm disgusted
This is the cruelest thing
What on earth is wrong with him ?
I know stress is not good for you right now
I'm so angry this is happening

This has been ongoing since my daughter was born. He was served this week with all kinds of court papers. My lawyer does not play around with custody issues. She’s known for being a shark which is why I hired her. You know what’s crazy? I don’t feel much stress at all, because one ridiculous thing takes my mind off the other. If I get tired of reading about cancer, I switch to continuing to compile evidence. If I get tired of thinking about his stupidity, I switch back to gathering information about cancer.

 

[Daisys and Diamonds]

This has been ongoing since my daughter was born. He was served this week with all kinds of court papers. My lawyer does not play around with custody issues. She’s known for being a shark which is why I hired her. You know what’s crazy? I don’t feel much stress at all, because one ridiculous thing takes my mind off the other. If I get tired of reading about cancer, I switch to continuing to compile evidence. If I get tired of thinking about his stupidity, I switch back to gathering information about cancer.

kind of different but relatable
when we had the big earthquake and my sister's house got written off her young son was having all sorts of mental health issues and was in hospital, the new build took her mind of all the other stuff too

less stress is always good !