Pushin40
Brilliant_Rock
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OK - so first it was a wedding in St Maarten in November.
Then it was Vegas in October.....
Now - looks like it will be in Mexico in November, Thanksgiving week. This is really what I want. It's my dream.
My sister, whom I'm not very close to, will have an issue with this because she feels she can't fly outside of the country (??) and told me I was selfish when I was considering St Maarten. She even told me that she coudln't be happy for me getting engaged because she was so angry with me. (Nice huh?)
But Vegas would be OK with her. I'm not really sure what her problem is but I know she HATES to fly and never does. And she would still have to fly to Vegas......
NO ONE has a problem with where I have my wedding, except her. The wedding will be small, just a few friends and FI's Mom....maybe 20-30 people tops.
I'm goigng to move forward with this plan but I still feel guitly. This thing is, over the weekend, I had an ache in my heart and I just knew I had to have our wedding on a beach, It's what I've always wanted. How can she think I'm selfish?
I don't want to hurt her, and she has already made it clear to me that its important to her that she be there. I guess I expect her to leave her comfort zone and just come.
It's hard to balance the "its your day " thing with the fact that she is my only sister, my parents are gone, and my family is basically nothing...but I can't let her drive the entire location. Right???
***sigh*** Thanks for letting me vent. I'm not looking forward to telling her what I've decided.
Then it was Vegas in October.....
Now - looks like it will be in Mexico in November, Thanksgiving week. This is really what I want. It's my dream.
My sister, whom I'm not very close to, will have an issue with this because she feels she can't fly outside of the country (??) and told me I was selfish when I was considering St Maarten. She even told me that she coudln't be happy for me getting engaged because she was so angry with me. (Nice huh?)
But Vegas would be OK with her. I'm not really sure what her problem is but I know she HATES to fly and never does. And she would still have to fly to Vegas......
NO ONE has a problem with where I have my wedding, except her. The wedding will be small, just a few friends and FI's Mom....maybe 20-30 people tops.
I'm goigng to move forward with this plan but I still feel guitly. This thing is, over the weekend, I had an ache in my heart and I just knew I had to have our wedding on a beach, It's what I've always wanted. How can she think I'm selfish?
I don't want to hurt her, and she has already made it clear to me that its important to her that she be there. I guess I expect her to leave her comfort zone and just come.
It's hard to balance the "its your day " thing with the fact that she is my only sister, my parents are gone, and my family is basically nothing...but I can't let her drive the entire location. Right???
***sigh*** Thanks for letting me vent. I'm not looking forward to telling her what I've decided.