CrookedRock
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TGal... We''re in the same boat. Part of me is thrilled we waited bc we didn''t lose our a$$ like many of our friends have. The other part of me wants to stop renting and start my married life in a home that we can call ours. I''m ready for a home, not a house. But I have to look at the bright side of all this. The way we see it is that we''ve been paid to rent for the past couple years. (meaning we didn''t lose $ on such a large investment.) (I also enjoyed laughing at everyone who tried to tell us we were throwing our money away renting, and now they are totally upside down in their crappy condos)Date: 2/23/2009 12:44:01 PM
Author: TravelingGal
I kind of have to agree with this. When you don''t have a house, you want the prices to drop drop drop, then of course once you buy, you hope and think it will only lose 10-15% more.Date: 2/23/2009 6:41:15 AM
Author: tradergirl
Would it still be a ''joy'' to own the house if you or your husband lost your jobs and had to struggle to pay the mortgage or had to turn down a better job elsewhere because you are tied to it and can''t sell? That is the problem people have all over the country.
Would you love your house if it dropped 40%? If you knew that your money, if you had waited, would have bought you a bigger and better house in a better neighborhood? Not picking on anyone at all, btw...these are questions I am dealing with myself as we struggle to figure out if the joys of homeownership would outweigh waiting another year or two. So far, the waiting is winning.
But we struggle with the same thing as you, weighing out our options. And waiting is winning with us too. We know that if we wait we''ll be able to purchase a home that we''ll be in for maybe 20 years to come. Or more. I''ll tell you what though... Patience really is a virtue.
