This couldnt be better timing. I just made a post about the BM gifts and how excited I am to give them to my BMs, even though they have not been very good to me over the last year.
To say the least I have had some pretty interesting things go on with my bridesmaids. Drama with the MOH and "co-MOH" has been the biggest problem. The one BM besides FI''s sisters that has not given me a single problem has just blown me away. I can''t even believe I just had this conversation. You will get a kick out of this one.
The BM just called me (I''m at work mind you) to discuss my batchlorette party (that will probably be in May,its still pretty early to even decided on a date) my first issue is this couldnt wait until 5pm when I get out of work? BM is a bartender and while she is still in school that is her only source of income. Now that may sound important, however, she lives at home, her parents pay for her car, her car insurance, college, her medical expenses and her cell phone. Her only expense is Gas for her car and whatever she feels like buying. So its not like she has to worry about paying for anything.
She actually just asked me if we could do a spa day, or something on a Sunday night so she doesnt have to take off of work, one night. She wants me to actually plan my bachlorette party around her work schedule. Not even considering myself or the other BMs might want to do or the fact the 95% of the girls who will be at the party have jobs to go to on monday morning, or the fact that maybe I want to go out when other people are out? The preliminary discussions that took place were about dinner and drinks most likely in NYC.
I''m just floored that she is making a big deal about having to take off 3 nights in one year for her "best friends" wedding. When her boyfriends sister got married, she had no problem with taking time off, from the same bar.
I actually can''t stop laughing. I can barely concentrate on anything at work because I cant even imagine what could be next from these girls. Maybe they will want to marry FI, have the first dance, who knows.
To say the least I have had some pretty interesting things go on with my bridesmaids. Drama with the MOH and "co-MOH" has been the biggest problem. The one BM besides FI''s sisters that has not given me a single problem has just blown me away. I can''t even believe I just had this conversation. You will get a kick out of this one.
The BM just called me (I''m at work mind you) to discuss my batchlorette party (that will probably be in May,its still pretty early to even decided on a date) my first issue is this couldnt wait until 5pm when I get out of work? BM is a bartender and while she is still in school that is her only source of income. Now that may sound important, however, she lives at home, her parents pay for her car, her car insurance, college, her medical expenses and her cell phone. Her only expense is Gas for her car and whatever she feels like buying. So its not like she has to worry about paying for anything.
She actually just asked me if we could do a spa day, or something on a Sunday night so she doesnt have to take off of work, one night. She wants me to actually plan my bachlorette party around her work schedule. Not even considering myself or the other BMs might want to do or the fact the 95% of the girls who will be at the party have jobs to go to on monday morning, or the fact that maybe I want to go out when other people are out? The preliminary discussions that took place were about dinner and drinks most likely in NYC.
I''m just floored that she is making a big deal about having to take off 3 nights in one year for her "best friends" wedding. When her boyfriends sister got married, she had no problem with taking time off, from the same bar.
I actually can''t stop laughing. I can barely concentrate on anything at work because I cant even imagine what could be next from these girls. Maybe they will want to marry FI, have the first dance, who knows.
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