Hello:
I haven't posted on this section of this site yet, but was hoping someone might have advise to help me feel better about something that happened last night.
So my BF has been having me research what colors, cuts, clarity, etc. I like in order to give him a reference point for a diamond. Well I went out looking around locally Saturday and saw some different colors, and while I was out I also texted a friend of mine and asked what color her ring was, that was it, no other details. When she first got engaged she was very open with the size of the ring so I thought asking her color would be no big deal. I know what her ring looks like in person and was just wondering to get a reference point of color. Also she could care less that I asked, which I know for a fact.
Well I told my BF last night that I has asked her that and he was so mad that I asked someone I knew that question. I said I guess I have just been on PS a ton and everyone talks about it. But he said "they are strangers!" Another factor to consider in this story is that she is married to a good friend of his, and that's how I have become friends with her. But her and I have become good friends and text, email, hang out and talk all the time. The BF got nasty with me and I just kind of didn't talk to him anymore for the night went to bed and am now still feeling guilty for asking her this.
I feel that I should not feel guilty about this, but he pretty much made me feel totally guilty for asking her this! However, he has been asking his guy friends who have purchased rings similar questions and finding out about rings too through them. I guess I don't see how it's any different than what I asked.
I haven't posted on this section of this site yet, but was hoping someone might have advise to help me feel better about something that happened last night.
So my BF has been having me research what colors, cuts, clarity, etc. I like in order to give him a reference point for a diamond. Well I went out looking around locally Saturday and saw some different colors, and while I was out I also texted a friend of mine and asked what color her ring was, that was it, no other details. When she first got engaged she was very open with the size of the ring so I thought asking her color would be no big deal. I know what her ring looks like in person and was just wondering to get a reference point of color. Also she could care less that I asked, which I know for a fact.
Well I told my BF last night that I has asked her that and he was so mad that I asked someone I knew that question. I said I guess I have just been on PS a ton and everyone talks about it. But he said "they are strangers!" Another factor to consider in this story is that she is married to a good friend of his, and that's how I have become friends with her. But her and I have become good friends and text, email, hang out and talk all the time. The BF got nasty with me and I just kind of didn't talk to him anymore for the night went to bed and am now still feeling guilty for asking her this.
I feel that I should not feel guilty about this, but he pretty much made me feel totally guilty for asking her this! However, he has been asking his guy friends who have purchased rings similar questions and finding out about rings too through them. I guess I don't see how it's any different than what I asked.