hurdle two...*still shaking head*

[iwannaprettyone]

lol, FI just emailed me that he will be having 2 bestmen...lol

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH, hahahaha

So now I am in that uncomfortable position of picking my bridesmaid Oi, this is too complicated.

 

[gwendolyn]

So don''t. Just let your MOH have two hot gents walk her down the aisle.

 

[Stephanie]

I say have the two guys walk with her if you don''t have an immediate name that comes to mind for a BM.

 

[Bia]

How common is picking two Best Men or Maid of Honors? My FSIL had cousin as a Matron of Honor and her Aunt as a Maid of Honor, but I''d never seen that before.

My cousin will probably be mine, but then there is my other cousin who I am equally close to. Interesting...

 

[musey]

Hm, well, I already posted this in your other thread, but I guess we've moved on to a new one?

Anyway:

Date: 5/29/2008 2:37:00 PM
Author: musey
Who the heck cares about symmetry, anyway? Especially at the expense of something as important as your wedding. We went from having one maid of honor and NO groomsmen (because FI didn't want to choose between his two guy friends) to having one maid of honor and TWO groomsmen. Either option would've been fine, but I'm glad he decided to include his guys, it'll make it more fun for him. It doesn't mean I have to go out and pick someone else to be a bridesmaid just because he has 'more' than I do.

Most other people were saying the exact same thing in that thread (don't know if you haven't gone back to read it?): include who you want to include, and not who you don't. No one will give one flying squirrel whether your numbers are even. Really. I promise. You're making this a lot more complicated/stressful than it needs to be!

 

[iwannaprettyone]

Date: 5/29/2008 3:09:20 PM
Author: musey
Hm, well, I already posted this in your other thread, but I guess we''ve moved on to a new one?

Anyway:

Date: 5/29/2008 2:37:00 PM
Author: musey
Who the heck cares about symmetry, anyway? Especially at the expense of something as important as your wedding. We went from having one maid of honor and NO groomsmen (because FI didn''t want to choose between his two guy friends) to having one maid of honor and TWO groomsmen. Either option would''ve been fine, but I''m glad he decided to include his guys, it''ll make it more fun for him. It doesn''t mean I have to go out and pick someone else to be a bridesmaid just because he has ''more'' than I do.

Most other people were saying the exact same thing in that thread (don''t know if you haven''t gone back to read it?): include who you want to include, and not who you don''t. No one will give one flying squirrel whether your numbers are even. Really. I promise. You''re making this a lot more complicated/stressful than it needs to be!

Don''t we all.

 

[choro72]

Who cares about the numbers? 1MOH-2BestMen is much better than 1MOH-0. I''m having 2 bridesmaids, and FI probably will only have 1 groomsman. My friend had it the same way, and they just had the one Bestman walk both ladies.

 

[musey]

Date: 5/29/2008 3:38:15 PM
Author: iwannaprettyone

Date: 5/29/2008 3:09:20 PM
Author: musey
You''re making this a lot more complicated/stressful than it needs to be!

Don''t we all.

Certainly, that''s what I''ve been doing with my wedding band search for over a year now! The wedding party situation is one thing that can be VERY easy and simple, if you let it

 

[Pandora II]

LOL!

Mine has FIVE!

I''m sure two of them will be thrilled with their 4 year-old partner down the aisle!

 

[Sabine]

Another option is to already have one best man stand up there with your FI (mine is doing this because he is painfully shy and doesn''t want to be up there by himself at all) and have the other one escort your MOH.

 

[SarahLovesJS]

Date: 5/29/2008 4:14:42 PM
Author: musey

Date: 5/29/2008 3:38:15 PM

Author: iwannaprettyone

Date: 5/29/2008 3:09:20 PM

Author: musey

You''re making this a lot more complicated/stressful than it needs to be!

Don''t we all.

Certainly, that''s what I''ve been doing with my wedding band search for over a year now! The wedding party situation is one thing that can be VERY easy and simple, if you let it

Hehe, yep. I think we all have our things.

It''ll be great, don''t worry!