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kenny|1367022632|3435281 said:5 would be average, so wouldn't you expect a peak at 5 ... instead of a dip?
Hey, shouldn't there be a peak at 5, which is average?
Any guesses why most of us rate ourselves as worse or better than average at singing?
I have a guess, but wonder whether someone else will post it first.
iLander|1367026788|3435339 said:kenny|1367022632|3435281 said:5 would be average, so wouldn't you expect a peak at 5 ... instead of a dip?
Hey, shouldn't there be a peak at 5, which is average?
Any guesses why most of us rate ourselves as worse or better than average at singing?
I have a guess, but wonder whether someone else will post it first.
Okay, I give up, why, Kenny?
I voted a 3. I have a great voice,it just can't follow the tune worth a damn.
I think I actually have a deficiency in that part of my brain (maybe from one of my head injuries?), I can't remember tunes at all. I decided to take flute lessons ("all these other people can read music, why can't I?") in my mid-30's, and I had to record the teacher's playing because I couldn't remember how it was supposed to sound. Oddly, I can whistle a tune somewhat better than I can sing. I've tried to figure out what the issue is. Maybe it's because this is a second language for me?
You obviously know about this stuff, Kenny. Do you have any ideas?
kenny|1367027698|3435348 said:iLander|1367026788|3435339 said:kenny|1367022632|3435281 said:5 would be average, so wouldn't you expect a peak at 5 ... instead of a dip?
Hey, shouldn't there be a peak at 5, which is average?
Any guesses why most of us rate ourselves as worse or better than average at singing?
I have a guess, but wonder whether someone else will post it first.
Okay, I give up, why, Kenny?
Interesting.
So, you are a play-by-ear kind of person.
I'm going to wait to see if others come up with it.
Doesn't mean I'm right, just wonder if some others also came up with what my guess is.
AGBF|1367093761|3435803 said:I knew ksinger could sing, so I didn't find it at all strange that she rated herself a 9. What I did find interesting (especially in light of the thread on intelligence) is that a lot of people who had sung in church choirs and were obviously fairly accomplished singers rated themselves only 4's and 5's! It makes me think that some truly good singers are thinking that they are not wonderful singers because they are comparing themselves to great singers!
In other words, if one is good enough to sing in a church choir or other chorus, he is probably good enough to be hard on himself! The disciplined church choir singer is probably comparing himself to someone at the Metropolitan Opera!
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I LOL'd at "soloists don't always play nice in an ensemble setting." I have experienced that scenario too many times in my life.ksinger|1367163494|3436082 said:AGBF|1367093761|3435803 said:I knew ksinger could sing, so I didn't find it at all strange that she rated herself a 9. What I did find interesting (especially in light of the thread on intelligence) is that a lot of people who had sung in church choirs and were obviously fairly accomplished singers rated themselves only 4's and 5's! It makes me think that some truly good singers are thinking that they are not wonderful singers because they are comparing themselves to great singers!
In other words, if one is good enough to sing in a church choir or other chorus, he is probably good enough to be hard on himself! The disciplined church choir singer is probably comparing himself to someone at the Metropolitan Opera!
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Well, how you would rate yourself would probably depend on how you define "good singing". If you think good singing is only being able to convincingly sing everything by Bonnie Raitt, Celine Dionne, AND Renee Fleming, combined with an oversized stage charisma, yeah, you probably won't rate yourself very highly. But if you realize that no one can really do that (except maybe Kristin Chenoweth), you can rate yourself a bit higher. The trick is to know how you define good singing, and and rate yourself in that light. Sticking strictly to vocal quality, I can give you (but won't: boring) a complete and detailed analysis of my own voice - size, timbre, quality, strengths and weaknesses, what genres I can sing convincingly and those I can't. Most people who have not had training - and I included myself in that category at one time - can't unflinchingly and honestly rate their own voice's quality. As Kenny points out, most people haven't even heard themselves except through the bones of their own heads. Recordings of oneself are VERY instructive. (Notice I'm still not addressing "performance" skills, which is a topic unto itself.)
Most people here are, I think, rating themselves as if solo singing is the best of "good singing". Maybe, maybe not.
There are lots of wonderful ensemble singers who really should not be solo singers. On the other hand, I've sung in several choirs where almost every voice was fully trained and solo quality (and a few where they only THOUGHT they were solo quality), and that has it's own problems - soloists don't always play nice in an ensemble setting. It usually takes a very strong director to ride herd on them and get them to throttle back to teammate status. Good ensemble singers are so often underrated, when that is a pretty amazing skill that not even a good soloist is guaranteed to have.
Good to better than average singing is actually lots of things. Obviously, first and foremost you have to be able to pitch match and stay in tempo. Pretty basic. After that, you have to be able to access the full range of your voice, and untrained singers generally can't. There is that indefinable "musicality" aspect too. After that, then it becomes the innate quality and timbre of the voice itself. That part is pretty non-negotiable. But that aspect is also what makes the voice distinctive. Think Rod Stewart. Bad voice, narrowly speaking - limited range and gravelly as all get out, but he found a niche in a genre that is pretty welcoming to a wide range of vocal qualities, and values uniqueness and delivery much more than vocal proficiency, and made serious hay with it. EVERYONE knows that voice. Certain other genres of music are very specific about the quality of the voices that can convincingly sing them. Rod won't be doing Nessun Dorma anytime soon. (And you really don't want to get me started on him doing the American Songbook. Sorry but)
It's been my experience that most people who say they can't sing CAN, but are uninterested in it, or are so married to their limitations that they won't try to stretch. For instance, I have a friend who insists she's an alto (because she is an alto in the church choir), when she is (like most women) an untrained (post-menopausal) soprano of some kind. She tries to argue with me on this. ME of all people!But she is a bit scared of, and isn't willing to do the work it would take to get her voice into that part of the range she's capable of, even now. It does however, provide fodder for an ongoing mock battle between us.
Being honest, the 8 or 9- is probably a past thing. Right NOW? a 7? As I said, I'm going to seed. I haven't tried anything too demanding in a long time. To be and STAY really good, takes time and attention and real effort, and I haven't given it in a long while. :-\ (I hear ya, Housecat!)