Elizabeth35
Brilliant_Rock
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- Sep 24, 2011
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OoohShiny--I don't know your exact situation. But paying off a dwelling, while desirable, is not required to have an enjoyable retirement. DH and I do not have any pensions---nor do most people in the US.
That is pretty much a thing of the past unless you are a teacher, government worker, military, etc.
You are saying two conflicting things. First--you live off credit to 'live' as opposed to just exist. Then--life is too expensive to save anything.
I agree life is expensive. But I think if you are on a forum that is focused on diamonds, it is hard to also say you have no money to save.
Again--I don't know your situation or your income or spending habits. And I am sorry if you have had hard times. I have also and it is no fun.
These are all issues of simple arithmetic. Earn more (have a side job or better first job) or spend less. Lol--hopefully both.
I was divorced at 50 with virtually nothing. I have always been frugal and I stepped up the cheapness.
Clothes were purchased on eBay and all home repairs were done myself--new thermostats, oven repair, new sump pump. I literally could not afford to pay for repairmen because I maxed out my 401K. No vacations and no eating out. Did a side job for extra $$.
I will add that I was very happy! I had healthy kids and wonderful friends and met my DH. Being poor was fine---it was a challenge to overcome.
So step outside the box and think about what you could do differently. It becomes a game and not a matter of going without.
That is pretty much a thing of the past unless you are a teacher, government worker, military, etc.
You are saying two conflicting things. First--you live off credit to 'live' as opposed to just exist. Then--life is too expensive to save anything.
I agree life is expensive. But I think if you are on a forum that is focused on diamonds, it is hard to also say you have no money to save.
Again--I don't know your situation or your income or spending habits. And I am sorry if you have had hard times. I have also and it is no fun.
These are all issues of simple arithmetic. Earn more (have a side job or better first job) or spend less. Lol--hopefully both.
I was divorced at 50 with virtually nothing. I have always been frugal and I stepped up the cheapness.
Clothes were purchased on eBay and all home repairs were done myself--new thermostats, oven repair, new sump pump. I literally could not afford to pay for repairmen because I maxed out my 401K. No vacations and no eating out. Did a side job for extra $$.
I will add that I was very happy! I had healthy kids and wonderful friends and met my DH. Being poor was fine---it was a challenge to overcome.
So step outside the box and think about what you could do differently. It becomes a game and not a matter of going without.