Treasure43
Brilliant_Rock
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Just curious how you all juggle the holidays with your FI and future in-laws. My parents live 9 hours away so we only get to see them three times a year. We agreed to switch on and off with Christmas one year for my family and Thanksgiving the same year for his family. However, after spending this Christmas with my family and spending Thanksgiving with his and having a Christmas celebration with his family when we got back from seeing my parents, I can''t help but feel sad. Because I know next year we''ll go see my parents for Thanksgiving and then have an after Thanksgiving with his parents AND Christmas. Perhaps I''m being oversensitive about this and I don''t want to be unfair, but I feel like my parents get the short end of the stick, through no fault of anyone''s.
I also have a very small family and am the only child. I have two grandmothers 93 and 97 years old. His family is quite large, he has a sister, and his grandparents are 10 years younger than mine. Perhaps part of me is feeling guilty because I know when I''m not home for Christmas it''s really upsetting to my grandmother and my mother.
I love his family (well his sister and I have some things to work out) and enjoy spending holidays with them but can''t help but feel like his family sees us so much and my family rarely sees us.
I''m not really sure what can be done about this situation (if anything at all) but I''d love some insight from all you ladies so I can wrap my head around this.
I also have a very small family and am the only child. I have two grandmothers 93 and 97 years old. His family is quite large, he has a sister, and his grandparents are 10 years younger than mine. Perhaps part of me is feeling guilty because I know when I''m not home for Christmas it''s really upsetting to my grandmother and my mother.
I love his family (well his sister and I have some things to work out) and enjoy spending holidays with them but can''t help but feel like his family sees us so much and my family rarely sees us.
I''m not really sure what can be done about this situation (if anything at all) but I''d love some insight from all you ladies so I can wrap my head around this.