Scintillating
Brilliant_Rock
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Hey everybody - forever the planner - I've got an ettiquette question.
My proposal is going to be this weekend, I'm 1000% sure.
I'd like to keep the weekend for us to enjoy in quiet bliss.
I don't plan on calling my family or his the moment after he proposes, or 100 other people.
I'm not worried about telling our immediate families about our engagement, it's not really a surprise to them. We've been together for 7 years.
We'll probably tell our parents, and immediate families together when the weekend is over.
My question is how do we tell/announce it to our extended family and friends?
Cousins, Aunts & uncles, Friends, etc?
I don't want people getting offended that they didn't hear immediately/first, or we didn't call them up immediately?
(Note* his is a BIG italian Irish family, complex political environment.)
We're planning on having an engagement party fairly immediately to allow our families to celebrate. Should I wait and just announce it via invitation? That might take awhile and people will definitely hear about it before that happens.
How do we be democratic and diplomatic?
Do we have to call everyone up individually so they don't feel slighted?
How do I handle this politely?
What do I do and what shouldn't I do? And what's my responsibility?
Thank you!
Scintillating...
My proposal is going to be this weekend, I'm 1000% sure.
I'd like to keep the weekend for us to enjoy in quiet bliss.
I don't plan on calling my family or his the moment after he proposes, or 100 other people.
I'm not worried about telling our immediate families about our engagement, it's not really a surprise to them. We've been together for 7 years.
We'll probably tell our parents, and immediate families together when the weekend is over.
My question is how do we tell/announce it to our extended family and friends?
Cousins, Aunts & uncles, Friends, etc?
I don't want people getting offended that they didn't hear immediately/first, or we didn't call them up immediately?
(Note* his is a BIG italian Irish family, complex political environment.)
We're planning on having an engagement party fairly immediately to allow our families to celebrate. Should I wait and just announce it via invitation? That might take awhile and people will definitely hear about it before that happens.
How do we be democratic and diplomatic?
Do we have to call everyone up individually so they don't feel slighted?
How do I handle this politely?
What do I do and what shouldn't I do? And what's my responsibility?
Thank you!
Scintillating...