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Shiny_Rock
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- Mar 25, 2010
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I'm sure that almost all of us have had or will have to deal with it at some point. Friends, family members, and coworkers who assume that they are invited to the wedding.
I feel like my situation is especially bad. I have two sets of parents (my parents remarried) and he has one set of parents. My guest list is busting at the seams at 330. My budget can only afford 225. 250 guests would be uncomfortable. I currently have 275 people on my "A list."
It seems like everyday, I learn about someone else who assumes that they are invited. This weekend it was the neice of one of my father's closest friends who recently moved to our city. I've known her for a year. Yesterday, it was a distant cousin who I recently added as a friend on facebook. Um...seriously people?!?!
Part of the problem is that both of my parents come from VERY small towns in the south. They are accustomed to VERY informal weddings. I'm talking no paper invitations because all are welcome to come feast off the neverending buffet. Well my affair is very formal (plated dinner and open bar) and kinda expensive.
What are your stories? And how in the heck are you dealing with these crazy people?!!
I feel like my situation is especially bad. I have two sets of parents (my parents remarried) and he has one set of parents. My guest list is busting at the seams at 330. My budget can only afford 225. 250 guests would be uncomfortable. I currently have 275 people on my "A list."
It seems like everyday, I learn about someone else who assumes that they are invited. This weekend it was the neice of one of my father's closest friends who recently moved to our city. I've known her for a year. Yesterday, it was a distant cousin who I recently added as a friend on facebook. Um...seriously people?!?!
Part of the problem is that both of my parents come from VERY small towns in the south. They are accustomed to VERY informal weddings. I'm talking no paper invitations because all are welcome to come feast off the neverending buffet. Well my affair is very formal (plated dinner and open bar) and kinda expensive.
What are your stories? And how in the heck are you dealing with these crazy people?!!