For a number of reasons we''re having a Friday evening ceremony and the reception won''t begin until around 8PM. We don''t want to spend all the time and money on a full dinner, so we''re having a selection of hors d''oeuvres, cocktails, and cake. We''ll have toasts, a dj, the works - just no sit-down meal. The dilemma comes in the wording of the invites. She wants to just say "Reception to follow" while I prefer "hors d''oeuvre reception to follow". She thinks my way will make people think it''s not a "real" reception. I think people should be aware that they shouldn''t expect a full meal. Any suggestions?