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HollyS''s Open Letter to the PS Community

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Everyone, Holly originally posted this in the "Around the World" forum, but she wanted to make sure everyone got a chance to see it, and she knows that not everyone visits the ATW forum. So, here it is:

This is an open letter to all of PS not just the ATW thread:

I think we are all just about the smartest group of people on any blog/forum, anywhere. We''re pretty well educated and informed; we read for edification and enlightenment as well as pleasure; we watch the news pretty carefully. We don''t always see world and national events through the same filter; but we do make educated decisions for ourselves based upon what we see. Because we are very intelligent, we are also willing and able to defend our beliefs and to appreciate those on the opposite side of the fence who can do the same. It is perhaps then a normal by-product of our beliefs and intelligence, that we become ''spirited'' in our debates with each other. Which one of us doesn''t enjoy our own (or someone else''s) "oh, SNAP!" comment that pins the tail on the proverbial donkey? If we''re honest, we can all admit to a certain level of satisfaction in creating a snappy rejoinder to a post we find a bit too full of itself.


I prefer to think that we do these things because we enjoy the process; not because we are ''out to get'' someone. I prefer to believe that we all appreciate each other''s intellect, if not each other''s politics; and that when we get a little too passionate in defending our position, it is not with the intent to ''draw blood'' from our opponent.


I''ve taken stock of my recent comments about remaining a PS member, and what I believed to be going wrong here. I''d like to share with you what I''ve decided.


PS is a great community; one of the best online communities ever. Many members agree that they''ve tried other forums; we''re tops. Head and shoulders above the rest. Do you know why? Because we care. Someone has a question? We''ve got answers. Maybe too many , but we have them. Someone has serious problems? We''ve got empathy and thoughtful advice. Someone''s experiencing tragedy? We''re praying ''round the clock with them. Natural disasters? We offer up our homes to evacuees (bless you, luckystar112).


We''ve celebrated each other''s engagements, weddings, anniversaries, babies, promotions, and new homes. We''ve prayed/mourned with one another through illnesses, deaths, divorces, miscarriages, disasters, and countless other problems. We are family; if not in the physical sense, certainly in the emotional sense.


This is what I''ve decided: I need my family. I hope you all feel that way, too. There is something very comforting about being able to sit down anywhere, anytime, and log on to PS, and find someone at the other end. Whatever is going on with us, even if all we need is company, we know we can find solace, friendship, empowerment, hope and more here at PS. How awesome is that?!


I want you all to know that I value each and every one of you; I care about who you are and what makes you tick; I accept you just as you are, regardless of our ''differences''; and I consider all of you to be my friends. I hope I am yours.
 
Well said Holly.
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Very, very well said.

This community has been a huge help in the middle of a crazy transition. On the nights when I knew nobody and felt like I had nothing, rather than cry myself to sleep I would come here, and I could laugh and smile and go to bed relaxed and face the next day a little bit stronger.

This is an amazing place.
 
That is incredibly well written, Holly, and expresses how most of us feel about PS in an incredibly eloquent way. Thank you.

Thank you for posting it IrishGrrl - I would not have seen it otherwise.
 
I''m confused. Why didn''t Holly S post this herself?
 
princesss, your post broke my heart. I hope those nights are few and far between.
 
Date: 9/24/2008 12:35:59 PM
Author: Sizzle
I'm confused. Why didn't Holly S post this herself?
Sizzle~

Holly did post it herself, in the "Around the World" forum. But she is aware that many PS members don't read that forum and she wanted to post it here also to make sure everyone got a chance to read it. However, Holly wasn't sure how to do that, so I did it for her.
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Tacori, I promise they are very rare. Mostly those were just the first few weeks here in Charlotte when all my friends were still in VA and having fun together, and I'd moved down here and knew nobody and was training for a job I was not at all excited about. I would go shopping on the weekends because if I bought something it forced people to interact with me. It got better after about a month, but that first month here was hell.

It was incredibly lonely, but then I'd come on PS and even if I didn't post, I felt like I was surrounded by friends.
 
Brava, Holly!
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that was incredible. i really appreciate Holly taking the time to put what i feel into words. i feel the same way and look forward every day to getting on here and talking with my PS family.
 
totally agree with you Holly!
 
My thanks to everyone who took the time to respond. I''m glad I touched a chord in so many PSers; we do have a great group of people here, don''t we? Consider yourselves hugged!
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Great letter, and fully agree! Thanks to everyone for being there when we need you!
 
couldn''t have said it better :)

(actually, couldnt have said it at all!! i just aint that eloquent
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Date: 9/25/2008 2:23:59 PM
Author: HollyS
My thanks to everyone who took the time to respond. I''m glad I touched a chord in so many PSers; we do have a great group of people here, don''t we? Consider yourselves hugged!
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Perfectly said....and Hugs back to you...to all.....this really is an amazing place.
 
Awww, thanks Holly! Very well said
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cheers!!!!!!!
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