Howdy all, I am very happy that I just came across this site. Thank you.
I have spent several hours on the web, bought a couple of books of choosing engagement rings and I still have no idea what I want to do.
Here''s my dilemna and I need help fast since I would love to propose the week before Christmas.
My girlfriend recently moved to Fla. for a 1 year fellowship as she is a Physical Therapist working on her masters. However, I still live in NJ, but am able to see her fairly decently as I work for an airline. Here is my problem, I have gone and looked at rings of different sizes, colors, and I personally cannot really see the difference. I guess I don''t have the genes. I however love saphires and emeralds, but I know that my girlfriend wants a square diamond. I also know she likes white gold. However, beyond that I have never really spent much time discussing individual diamonds rings as I really want to surprise her out of the blue. We met 5 years ago on Halloween, when I made her laugh as I was dressed as a Teletubbie. From that point on, I knew I had something special. I want to surprise her on the week before December as she has a week off before Christmas and I''d love to propose as I plan on taking her somewhere and doing it there. (I''ll work that out later, maybe on top of Mt. Fuji)
My problem is, how do I choose a ring that I know she''ll love without knowing:
a. her ring size, (I can''t go steal a ring as she is in Fla. and I''m in NJ and if its gone too long she''ll notice.
b. I can''t find out from her friends (they don''t know, never really discussed it with them) and her mother and sister couldn''t help me as they can''t keep a secret and I don''t want her to catch wind of the idea. She''s convinced I''ll never get engaged.
c. Is it bad form, or even possible to get some sort of ring to use and then when (if) she accepts, go and choose a ring that she''ll really love. I''d pick something simple and not raised, since she is physical therapist she has to work with her hands a lot?
Therefore, any help would be appreciated. Additionally, if anyone here likes picking out diamonds and is in NJ/NY let me know as I may need your help.
I have spent several hours on the web, bought a couple of books of choosing engagement rings and I still have no idea what I want to do.
Here''s my dilemna and I need help fast since I would love to propose the week before Christmas.
My girlfriend recently moved to Fla. for a 1 year fellowship as she is a Physical Therapist working on her masters. However, I still live in NJ, but am able to see her fairly decently as I work for an airline. Here is my problem, I have gone and looked at rings of different sizes, colors, and I personally cannot really see the difference. I guess I don''t have the genes. I however love saphires and emeralds, but I know that my girlfriend wants a square diamond. I also know she likes white gold. However, beyond that I have never really spent much time discussing individual diamonds rings as I really want to surprise her out of the blue. We met 5 years ago on Halloween, when I made her laugh as I was dressed as a Teletubbie. From that point on, I knew I had something special. I want to surprise her on the week before December as she has a week off before Christmas and I''d love to propose as I plan on taking her somewhere and doing it there. (I''ll work that out later, maybe on top of Mt. Fuji)
My problem is, how do I choose a ring that I know she''ll love without knowing:
a. her ring size, (I can''t go steal a ring as she is in Fla. and I''m in NJ and if its gone too long she''ll notice.
b. I can''t find out from her friends (they don''t know, never really discussed it with them) and her mother and sister couldn''t help me as they can''t keep a secret and I don''t want her to catch wind of the idea. She''s convinced I''ll never get engaged.
c. Is it bad form, or even possible to get some sort of ring to use and then when (if) she accepts, go and choose a ring that she''ll really love. I''d pick something simple and not raised, since she is physical therapist she has to work with her hands a lot?
Therefore, any help would be appreciated. Additionally, if anyone here likes picking out diamonds and is in NJ/NY let me know as I may need your help.