Wedding Help with a bridal wrap/bolero/shawl?

[darkeyesredshoes]

I posted about needing advice about a wrap to wear with my wedding dress over here, but belatedly realized you ladies probably already have the answers to my questions! Rather than moving my thread, would you please chime in if you have the time?

Shopping question, wedding question, poTAYto, poTAHto, you know?