I am having a large wedding with a large bridal party. I am not very traditional and that starts with my bridal party. I have 4 bridesmaids, two MOH and a matron as well.
Heres why: My sister is a maid of honor (my only sister and sibling)
I have two best friends. One is married one is not.
NOBODY has a problem with all of this except the matron. My sister wanted to host the party and have everyone help. She asked me if she could and I said sure because my matron has not said anything to me about it for 7 mo I have been engaged. Now there is 7 mo. left and so I said sure since I didnt think the matron was going to.
Now the matron is all ticked off that there are 3MOH and that she was not hosting the shower. So I tell her ...then you do it :nobody cares they just want to know and help. In the process she tells me my sister is a control freak, and classless since she never contacted her to begin with. My sister is in her mid 20s and has done nothing wrong. She just wants to do something for me (her big sister) My matron is my age in her mid 30s. I am so hurt (she has thrown tantrums like this in the past) and I am not a drama girl.Nor do I need any of this drama before the wedding. EVERYTHING was going smooth until this.
I want her to be my matron but now she wont answer my emails, texts, or calls. What do I do?
Heres why: My sister is a maid of honor (my only sister and sibling)
I have two best friends. One is married one is not.
NOBODY has a problem with all of this except the matron. My sister wanted to host the party and have everyone help. She asked me if she could and I said sure because my matron has not said anything to me about it for 7 mo I have been engaged. Now there is 7 mo. left and so I said sure since I didnt think the matron was going to.
Now the matron is all ticked off that there are 3MOH and that she was not hosting the shower. So I tell her ...then you do it :nobody cares they just want to know and help. In the process she tells me my sister is a control freak, and classless since she never contacted her to begin with. My sister is in her mid 20s and has done nothing wrong. She just wants to do something for me (her big sister) My matron is my age in her mid 30s. I am so hurt (she has thrown tantrums like this in the past) and I am not a drama girl.Nor do I need any of this drama before the wedding. EVERYTHING was going smooth until this.
I want her to be my matron but now she wont answer my emails, texts, or calls. What do I do?