Mandarine
Ideal_Rock
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Hi girls!
I''m a little down and need to vent....I rather vent to you then to my BF (hope you all don''t mind!)....
A little history.....me and my BF first had the "talk" at the beginning of the year. Then I found out he had been looking at rings a while back but we had some downs because he felt I was putting some "pressure" by asking too many questions (which I honestly don''t think was THAT bad) and he wanted to be able to surprise, etc. Then I went on vacation and came back with a completely different attitude and have been happier...not thinking about engagement/marriage so much, etc....but it is obviously still there in the back of my mind. Our two year anniversary is coming up and we are already half way through 2006! (he said we would get engaged this year).
So I have been just wondering if he has a plan...he doesn''t seem like he has, I honestly don''t think he has one. So I just came out and asked him if he had a plan.
He was honest enough to say no....he did say that he has given some thought as to "how"....but no plans.
When we first talked in January or so, I thought that by now we would be engaged or he would at least have a plan. Because or where we live (Florida) June-November are blocked for having a wedding because of hurricane season....all I can think now is that the engagement will come too late for me to be able to plan something before June of ''07...so now we''re looking at after Nov. ''07....and that just makes me sad
We only see each other on weekends and I won''t move there until we''re married (because I can''t leave my job until we''re married -immigration reasons- and we live over an hour away).....so now I feel I have at least another year and half left to this "weekend" arrangement!
I don''t wnat to have a "talk" with him because we will probably end-up having an argument that won''t take us anywhere. I have been more than open and honest about how I feel, so talking about it might not solve anything. I just don''t get what he''s waiting for...and why doesn''t he at least a plan!!!!
Ok....sorry for the long post....thanks for letting me vent!
M~