Italiahaircolor
Ideal_Rock
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So, last Thursday I had my friends son with me all day so she could travel for business. As a special treat, I took him to McDonalds for lunch. Well, unknown to me it must have been finals because the place was overrun with highschools--but not seniors, you can tell, you know?
As we were sitting there--I noticed a boy (probably 16 or 17) sitting alone. The place was packed with his classmates...and there he sat. It was sad, really. No one was talking to him, but you could tell he was hopeful...often looking around, smiling at people he knew...but no one approached him at all. Finally a couple of boys came up and started making fun of him...calling him awful names and just embarrassing him. It broke my heart...and if I hadn''t of had a 4 year old in toe I would have unleashed and really scared those boys. The boy I''d been watching quickly cleaned up his meal (meanwhile the taunting continued)....walked out (the bullies followed) got on his bike and rode away.
So....
Last night I was at the grocery store getting some stuff and low and behold....there is the boy who was teased collecting carts. I had to stop myself from going over and introducing myself--and telling him that although it''s hard now, life does get easier.
I wanted to...really, really badly. Because, from what I saw, the teasing wasn''t an isolated incident...and this boy was really hurt by it. But something stopped me...maybe it''s the fact that I didn''t want to be nosy or interfer...but I just couldn''t bring myself to say anything..
So my question is, has anyone here ever given unsolicited advice IRL?
As we were sitting there--I noticed a boy (probably 16 or 17) sitting alone. The place was packed with his classmates...and there he sat. It was sad, really. No one was talking to him, but you could tell he was hopeful...often looking around, smiling at people he knew...but no one approached him at all. Finally a couple of boys came up and started making fun of him...calling him awful names and just embarrassing him. It broke my heart...and if I hadn''t of had a 4 year old in toe I would have unleashed and really scared those boys. The boy I''d been watching quickly cleaned up his meal (meanwhile the taunting continued)....walked out (the bullies followed) got on his bike and rode away.
So....
Last night I was at the grocery store getting some stuff and low and behold....there is the boy who was teased collecting carts. I had to stop myself from going over and introducing myself--and telling him that although it''s hard now, life does get easier.
I wanted to...really, really badly. Because, from what I saw, the teasing wasn''t an isolated incident...and this boy was really hurt by it. But something stopped me...maybe it''s the fact that I didn''t want to be nosy or interfer...but I just couldn''t bring myself to say anything..
So my question is, has anyone here ever given unsolicited advice IRL?