I love these stories.
I wish I had possessed the maturity and self worth to realize that marriage is a decision that should be yours entirely, not just some team you hope to get chosen for.
I haven’t turned down a marriage proposal but I have turned down other “proposals” by men.
I love these stories. It's sad, but I remember thinking "Ok but... what if NO one ever proposes to me ever again?"
I wish I had possessed the maturity and self worth to realize that marriage is a decision that should be yours entirely, not just some team you hope to get chosen for.
All that matters is that you have the maturity and knowledge of self worth and self confidence now and moving forward. Can't change the past but we have the present and the future and all I can say is You Rock @Elliot86 and deserve all the happiness in the world. (((Hugs))).
lol! I'm in the opposite situation. I got a divorce this May after being separated since 2016. I've been seeing someone for the past year and 4 months. After mulling about a number of flags, I broke it off this morning. Biggest one being he didn't like hanging out with me with my kids, or us spending time with him and his kid. Everything in his life is separate buckets. Since his family is very conservative I'm referred to as being just a friend. I understand before my divorce was final, but nothing has changed since then.
I'm at the point I would rather be 1) single and focus on myself and my kids, or 2) be in a relationship that is progressing into something. My life is already divided enough as it is. I do have some sadness and mixed feelings but I feel this is the right decision.