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Brilliant_Rock
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Okay, so we made our guesting rule that people had to be in serious relationships with the other person and we would accordingly put someone's name on the invitation, not just "guest."
Cousin Kate was invited with boyfriend Tom. Kate was with Tom for several years, and of course upon receipt of invitation that says "Kate & Tom", Kate and Tom broke up.
Kate has emailed, asking whether she might bring someone else in Ex-Tom's stead.
Before I dish my two cents on the situation, I want to hear it from y'all about your initial reactions and how you'd handle it. Keep in mind, our guesting criteria was truly whether someone was or was not in a serious relationship.
Cousin Kate was invited with boyfriend Tom. Kate was with Tom for several years, and of course upon receipt of invitation that says "Kate & Tom", Kate and Tom broke up.
Kate has emailed, asking whether she might bring someone else in Ex-Tom's stead.
Before I dish my two cents on the situation, I want to hear it from y'all about your initial reactions and how you'd handle it. Keep in mind, our guesting criteria was truly whether someone was or was not in a serious relationship.