Keepingthefaith21
Brilliant_Rock
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I was invited to a bridal shower which was described on the invite as "Greenback" (i.e. the couple does not want gifts, they only want money).
It seems tacky to me and I am so turned off by this I have declined the attend the shower.
I want to know how common of a practice this really is. Have any of you ladies had a shower where you did not register and told your guests directly on the invitation "cash only" gifts?
I realize some people are going to say "you''d spend money on a gift so what is the difference?" but for someone who''s a little old fashioned like myself, I truly enjoy buying a gift for friends off a registry for a shower and then giving cash for the wedding. I would never ever send out a birthday party invitation and say "cash only" so I feel it is wildly inappropriate to get one for a bridal shower. I feel like this wedding is nothing more than a cash cow to the couple.
Am I the only person who feels that this sort of shower is tacky?
It seems tacky to me and I am so turned off by this I have declined the attend the shower.
I want to know how common of a practice this really is. Have any of you ladies had a shower where you did not register and told your guests directly on the invitation "cash only" gifts?
I realize some people are going to say "you''d spend money on a gift so what is the difference?" but for someone who''s a little old fashioned like myself, I truly enjoy buying a gift for friends off a registry for a shower and then giving cash for the wedding. I would never ever send out a birthday party invitation and say "cash only" so I feel it is wildly inappropriate to get one for a bridal shower. I feel like this wedding is nothing more than a cash cow to the couple.
Am I the only person who feels that this sort of shower is tacky?