sleeping beauty
Shiny_Rock
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- Jan 17, 2006
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So i''m freaking out because we have like 6-7 months before the wedding and nothing is done, i mean nothing. but thats not why i''m freaking out. i''m kinda lay back about that.
What im really freaking out is the Catholic Church!!!! GRRRrr, why you wonder, well cause they are making me misserable with all their rules and regulations.
Here is my problem and the source of my going nuts today. My FI was previously married. 2nd mrriage for him 1st for me. Well he was young and to make a long story short, his HS girl got pregnant and they got married at city hall. things didnt work they got divorce. So now that we want to get married in the catholic church we need to get his marriage annuled. OK fine we did the paper work, wrote a loooong paper on why his marriage didnt work etc. Now the Fr wants to know if his x-wife was baptised and where. How in the world is FI going to as his x-wife that... they barelly talk. And why does it matter anyways??? they were never married through ANY church!!!!
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i guess im just overwhelm b/c the date is getting closer and i dont see things moving along with the church process, and i would hate to have to postponed the wedding AGAIN!!! but i also dont see myself NOT getting married by the church, it has always been my dream.
Did anyone have to go through this process? how long did it take? what do i do?
I just needed to get this off my chest and maybe hear that it will be OK and i''ll have time. Thanks for "listening"
What im really freaking out is the Catholic Church!!!! GRRRrr, why you wonder, well cause they are making me misserable with all their rules and regulations.
Here is my problem and the source of my going nuts today. My FI was previously married. 2nd mrriage for him 1st for me. Well he was young and to make a long story short, his HS girl got pregnant and they got married at city hall. things didnt work they got divorce. So now that we want to get married in the catholic church we need to get his marriage annuled. OK fine we did the paper work, wrote a loooong paper on why his marriage didnt work etc. Now the Fr wants to know if his x-wife was baptised and where. How in the world is FI going to as his x-wife that... they barelly talk. And why does it matter anyways??? they were never married through ANY church!!!!
.
i guess im just overwhelm b/c the date is getting closer and i dont see things moving along with the church process, and i would hate to have to postponed the wedding AGAIN!!! but i also dont see myself NOT getting married by the church, it has always been my dream.
Did anyone have to go through this process? how long did it take? what do i do?
I just needed to get this off my chest and maybe hear that it will be OK and i''ll have time. Thanks for "listening"