Pandora II
Ideal_Rock
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- Aug 3, 2006
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To be honest I really think you two need to get a cleaning lady.
I am seriously untidy (FI is pretty bad too) and when I am tired I am not interested in vacuuming, tidying up, washing up etc etc. I have never in the last 3 years taken the vacuum cleaner out of the cupboard.
Solution - we pay someone else to do it for us. I come home on Monday night and the house is spotless and all the ironing is done.
Result - Clean and tidy house and no rows.
It''s so not worth getting wound up over dust...
If your husband is stubborn and set in his ways (which so many are) you will just wear yourself out and get nowhere. He won''t change and you need to start working out how you will work with his way of being.
I am seriously untidy (FI is pretty bad too) and when I am tired I am not interested in vacuuming, tidying up, washing up etc etc. I have never in the last 3 years taken the vacuum cleaner out of the cupboard.
Solution - we pay someone else to do it for us. I come home on Monday night and the house is spotless and all the ironing is done.
Result - Clean and tidy house and no rows.
It''s so not worth getting wound up over dust...
If your husband is stubborn and set in his ways (which so many are) you will just wear yourself out and get nowhere. He won''t change and you need to start working out how you will work with his way of being.