KimberlyH
Ideal_Rock
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Katamari, it is much more clear now that you have spent much time giving this subject the consideration it needs and deserves. It''s not an easy choice to make for thoughtful people who have other priorities. The fact that you are capable of responding so thoughtfully, rather than becoming defensive, is quite indicative of your maturity regarding the subject, which is wonderful. I don''t think anyone truly knows what they are in for until they become a parent (at almost 4 months pregnant it still seems so abstract that I and my husband will be wholly responsible for another human being this coming spring). Sometimes parenthood ends up being a large disappointment, but I believe that is much more common for people who have children because it''s just what you do, not because it''s something they''ve thought long and hard about. I wish you and your husband much luck.