Wedding For those of you who had/are having two ceremonies...

[NewEnglandLady]

This may be a silly question, but which date will you use for anniversaries? I have a friend who''s having a civil ceremony here in the U.S., then another ceremony (non-legal) overseas where her family lives. She was joking that she didn''t know which one would be their real anniversary, the legal ceremony or the more emotional one. I told her to celebrate both

For anniversaries, which date are you celebrating?