nicoleben
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- May 24, 2010
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This may come off as personal from me, but I am in a difficult situation. I will be getting married in a church, however, I am not sure who should walk me down the aisle. I have tried to build a relationship back up with my father, we had a very rough past and haven't spoke in over 7 years. About a year ago we reconciled and tried to build our relationship back up. I forgave him for what he did and decided life goes on..Then recently I had asked him if he would walk me down the aisle, and he said yes. This past week we had another falling out.. A falling out to the point of me not even wanting to reconcile with him due to the fact that it would just be unhealthy. ..I have a stepfather who loves me dearly, however I do not want him to walk me down the aisle because he has two daughters of his own and I would not want to take that way from them for when they decide to get married. Do you think having my older brother walk me down the aisle is okay? Or my grandfather? I am so confused. As sad as it sounds, I do not want it to be my father. He has caused too much heartache in my life, and this last time is definitely the last time.