winternight
Brilliant_Rock
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- Nov 12, 2006
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Ok, so I''m a little hurt because I sort of feel like I''m doing everthing myself - even buying my own ring! My fiance proposed without a ring and we''ve been shopping together but he hadn''t done any research beforehand other than go to Tiffany and then he didn''t ask to actually see the rings so he had no idea how much they cost. He wants to get married next year and he wants a reception but I feel like he wants me to plan everything, even though I don''t even really want a reception because of the ridiculous cost/stress. I have a feeling that if I don''t plan things it won''t get done or he''ll just do whatever, even if it costs alot more.
I think I''m supposed to be excited but I''m just stressed. Looking for the ring is stressing me out the most and while I''m leaning towards getting a Tiffany/Cartier solitare from signedpieces they don''t have any inventory right now in what I''m looking for so I''m a little sad about that. I feel guilty about talking to him about his budget (this was another thread) and he''s gone up but I just wish he would look around or something. He is a sweet guy and he proposed in Paris (a birthday present for me) but he hates shopping - I just wish he was making more of an effort here. I''m trying to be practical here, if we just go to Tiffany its going to cost alot more and I''m going to get something much smaller.
It doesn''t help matters that he keeps telling me that he doesn''t know what to get me for Christmas. I''m already done with his shopping and have a list ready for his birthday in a few months.
I hope its ok that I''m venting. I just don''t know what to do.
I think I''m supposed to be excited but I''m just stressed. Looking for the ring is stressing me out the most and while I''m leaning towards getting a Tiffany/Cartier solitare from signedpieces they don''t have any inventory right now in what I''m looking for so I''m a little sad about that. I feel guilty about talking to him about his budget (this was another thread) and he''s gone up but I just wish he would look around or something. He is a sweet guy and he proposed in Paris (a birthday present for me) but he hates shopping - I just wish he was making more of an effort here. I''m trying to be practical here, if we just go to Tiffany its going to cost alot more and I''m going to get something much smaller.
It doesn''t help matters that he keeps telling me that he doesn''t know what to get me for Christmas. I''m already done with his shopping and have a list ready for his birthday in a few months.
I hope its ok that I''m venting. I just don''t know what to do.