divergrrl
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My kitty was diagnosed y''day with Feline Mast Cell Tumor. (round fatty looking thing behind her ear)
I went into the vet, and they said I needed surgery asap & while I was at it, all these other service, dental, calcuim workup,etc (cha-ching, cha-ching, cha-ching, cha-ching). By the time I left I had one helluva vet bill. I am supposed to schedule the surgery next week....
My cat is 11 years old & acting fine.
My dear friend, who spends more$$ on her high maintenance & always sick dogs came over to look at the tumor last night. It''s just like the ones her dog gets. (Mast Cell in dogs is b.a.d. and cats aren''t affected the same) She had an appt with a veterinary oncologist about them last week since her dog has had numerous surgeries. He told her in an old pet, its best to leave it be. This is an ONCOLOGIST.
So I''m wondering...does anyone have experience with this in CATS? I''m the type of person who will not spend exorbitant amounts of $$ on uneccessary pet surgeries on old pets. I know it sounds heartless, but spending 3k in 3months on an old diabetic cat who I had to put down anyway cured me of that. I''m more for keeping them comfy & euthanizing them when they start failing.
I also have a 3k Labor & Delivery bill looming in 3 months that I will have to pay. My own insurance, even though DH works for a huge company & has good bennies, doesn''t cover the whole thing.
I refuse to put this stuff on a credit card because that''s how you get sucked into debt & as a SAHM/one income family, I cannot allow us to get caught up in that...there is always SOME emergency.
I mean, if she needs it, she''ll get it...I just won''t be able to do some of the repairs we were going to do on the house before the baby came, and I guess we can eat mac & cheese/ramen for the next few months.
I''m just pissed. I feel like vets are always upselling their services & creating fear. (the oncologist told my friend this as well). Its just bad timing.
Diver
I went into the vet, and they said I needed surgery asap & while I was at it, all these other service, dental, calcuim workup,etc (cha-ching, cha-ching, cha-ching, cha-ching). By the time I left I had one helluva vet bill. I am supposed to schedule the surgery next week....
My cat is 11 years old & acting fine.
My dear friend, who spends more$$ on her high maintenance & always sick dogs came over to look at the tumor last night. It''s just like the ones her dog gets. (Mast Cell in dogs is b.a.d. and cats aren''t affected the same) She had an appt with a veterinary oncologist about them last week since her dog has had numerous surgeries. He told her in an old pet, its best to leave it be. This is an ONCOLOGIST.
So I''m wondering...does anyone have experience with this in CATS? I''m the type of person who will not spend exorbitant amounts of $$ on uneccessary pet surgeries on old pets. I know it sounds heartless, but spending 3k in 3months on an old diabetic cat who I had to put down anyway cured me of that. I''m more for keeping them comfy & euthanizing them when they start failing.
I also have a 3k Labor & Delivery bill looming in 3 months that I will have to pay. My own insurance, even though DH works for a huge company & has good bennies, doesn''t cover the whole thing.
I refuse to put this stuff on a credit card because that''s how you get sucked into debt & as a SAHM/one income family, I cannot allow us to get caught up in that...there is always SOME emergency.
I mean, if she needs it, she''ll get it...I just won''t be able to do some of the repairs we were going to do on the house before the baby came, and I guess we can eat mac & cheese/ramen for the next few months.
I''m just pissed. I feel like vets are always upselling their services & creating fear. (the oncologist told my friend this as well). Its just bad timing.
Diver
