Cehrabehra
Super_Ideal_Rock
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- Jun 29, 2006
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my best friend of 25 years has never married or had children, is a phd in a high rise studio. We have almost nothing in common, really, other than being able to cut past all the BS with remarkable ease. And it has been tough during various times, but we''ve always been aware and open about those times. My mom and her best friend died a year apart from one another and had been friends for over 50 years. her friend got married and had kids 5 years before my mom... my mom became a business owner... my mom also divorced first and became a single mom... they had times they didn''t talk for months, and she told me, we always knew that there would be times we had nothing in common and then things would come together again. That''s the philosophy I''ve held and communicated with my BFF. She cannot relate to maternal pangs or compromise in a relationship - I cannot relate to some of what she deals with. It definitely isn''t always easy, but having it on the table and open for discussion has certainly helped.