labbielove
Brilliant_Rock
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FI and I are having 100 guests at our wedding, our immediate families alone are approximately 50, but we really wanted to keep it as small as possible, we''d even prefer fewer people if possible so we may still trim down the list.
So now I find myself in the common situation of friends/coworkers etc. asking me about wedding plans, and when I know they''re not on the invite list I try to keep the responses as brief as possible.
Well today I had a coworker come right out and say "when is your wedding? I want to come"
I just pretended like I didn''t hear the second part.
It was said in a nice way, but I think that''s rude to put me on the spot like that.
I know I need to let people know it''s small and we can''t invite everyone, but it really sucks. The point is, I don''t WANT to invite everyone- is that so wrong?
I''m rambling, I really haven''t talked about my wedding at work at all other than when I said I need time off. Other folks keep bringing it up.
Any similar situations?
So now I find myself in the common situation of friends/coworkers etc. asking me about wedding plans, and when I know they''re not on the invite list I try to keep the responses as brief as possible.
Well today I had a coworker come right out and say "when is your wedding? I want to come"
I just pretended like I didn''t hear the second part.
It was said in a nice way, but I think that''s rude to put me on the spot like that.
I know I need to let people know it''s small and we can''t invite everyone, but it really sucks. The point is, I don''t WANT to invite everyone- is that so wrong?
I''m rambling, I really haven''t talked about my wedding at work at all other than when I said I need time off. Other folks keep bringing it up.
Any similar situations?