Lauren8211
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Ok, so I''m torn on this situation. My parents got divorced when I was 6, i had a very limited relationship with my dad until maybe age 10. Then I didn''t hear from him or see him until 19, and then again until about 25. He tended to disappear, had a lot of problems with alcohol, but my brother and I are not entirely convinced it was all his decision not to have a relationship with us.
As I''m sure some of you know, I just got married. My mom feels very strongly that I should email/call/write to tell my dad that I''ve gotten married. She thinks it would be the nice/right thing to do. I think it just sounds mean. I mean, would he really want to know that I was married and that he wasnt there?
I don''t have any desire to have any further relationship with him, so should I just leave it alone? Or does he have a right to know?
Thanks!
As I''m sure some of you know, I just got married. My mom feels very strongly that I should email/call/write to tell my dad that I''ve gotten married. She thinks it would be the nice/right thing to do. I think it just sounds mean. I mean, would he really want to know that I was married and that he wasnt there?
I don''t have any desire to have any further relationship with him, so should I just leave it alone? Or does he have a right to know?
Thanks!