Hi Ladies!
My SO and I have been together for nearly 2 and a half yrs - the topic of getting engaged has come up several times so i know its in the pipeline. He has always said he wants me to have the surprise element including the ring and the diamond. I thought at first he woiuld be comfortable proposing just with the diamond but he wants to propose with the entire ring. He has always wanted mer to have a round brilliant solitaire on a very thin band either platinum or white gold and either 4 or 6 prongs. He knows i like round brilliants so would gladly make sure i have one.
Thing is, i dont really know what i want and im worried i wont like what he gets me. Is it best to trust his judgement? Or go around with him and try things on? I feel though that if i bring up going looking that I am pressuring him as it wasnt his "idea". Has anyone been in a similar situation?
While i would love a microvepave diamonds on the shank and or maybe a halo - I am only 5 foot and have tiny fingers (size 4/H) and am worried the ring would then look too much on my finger and he keeps saying the solitaire would be a timeless piece - which dont get me wrong obviously woould be! My other 2 close friends have RB solitaires - does this matter?
Any help would be appreciated!
Thanks!
My SO and I have been together for nearly 2 and a half yrs - the topic of getting engaged has come up several times so i know its in the pipeline. He has always said he wants me to have the surprise element including the ring and the diamond. I thought at first he woiuld be comfortable proposing just with the diamond but he wants to propose with the entire ring. He has always wanted mer to have a round brilliant solitaire on a very thin band either platinum or white gold and either 4 or 6 prongs. He knows i like round brilliants so would gladly make sure i have one.
Thing is, i dont really know what i want and im worried i wont like what he gets me. Is it best to trust his judgement? Or go around with him and try things on? I feel though that if i bring up going looking that I am pressuring him as it wasnt his "idea". Has anyone been in a similar situation?
While i would love a microvepave diamonds on the shank and or maybe a halo - I am only 5 foot and have tiny fingers (size 4/H) and am worried the ring would then look too much on my finger and he keeps saying the solitaire would be a timeless piece - which dont get me wrong obviously woould be! My other 2 close friends have RB solitaires - does this matter?
Any help would be appreciated!
Thanks!