sillyberry
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So my MOH is pretty much the awesomest ever and she wants to host an engagement party for my FI and me in a city where she lives and I will soon live again and where 12 wedding invitees live. Which is great! It isn't really the right time to have an engagement party, considering the wedding is 2 months away, but I didn't want anyone to buy presents so we thought that was better than a couples shower. There is a delightful cherry blossom theme emerging and it should be fun!
One question though.
I have a group of future coworkers (6 people including their SOs) that I like very much, but didn't invite to the wedding because we're already way over our target number (I didn't feel right inviting one and not all) and after working with them for just a summer asking them to go to effectively a destination wedding seemed a bit too much. But I do like them a whole lot, am excited about working with them starting in the fall, and would love to invite them to the party. But everything I've read says that no one should be invited to any pre-wedding festivity if they are not invited to the wedding.
So is it in horribly bad form to invite them to the party?
PS - vc, I think this is the weekend you're in KC (last weekend in March). Otherwise, wanna come?
One question though.
I have a group of future coworkers (6 people including their SOs) that I like very much, but didn't invite to the wedding because we're already way over our target number (I didn't feel right inviting one and not all) and after working with them for just a summer asking them to go to effectively a destination wedding seemed a bit too much. But I do like them a whole lot, am excited about working with them starting in the fall, and would love to invite them to the party. But everything I've read says that no one should be invited to any pre-wedding festivity if they are not invited to the wedding.
So is it in horribly bad form to invite them to the party?
PS - vc, I think this is the weekend you're in KC (last weekend in March). Otherwise, wanna come?