allycat0303
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Hi ladies,
I have an etiquette question, as I did not have an engagement party. My husband's close friend is getting married. He is an old high school friend, who I know in passing (He was one of the groomsmen at our wedding) Yesturday, he told my husband he was getting married (YEAH!) and that he wanted my husband to be a groomsman. Now I know that I'm invited to the wedding because they briefly discussed where to seat me because I don't know anyone.
Today my husband got this e-invite. And both of us can't figure out if I'm invited or not!
I'm copying and pasting:
REPLY HERE
Will you attend?
Yes No Maybe
Total guests 1 (including you)
I mean it says 1, so I assume that's my husband. That 1 was filled in, but you can change it to a 2.
And I REALLY, REALLY don't want him to ask his friend, because I think that's rude, because then he'll be put in the position to say yes, even if it's no. And there might be all sorts of space/budget constraints that I don't know about.
Added, I don't know the girl well (only met her once) and the guy, only casually.
And I really don't mind either way. If I'm invited OF COURSE I will go because he was a big part of our wedding (and bring appropriately generous gift), and if I'm not invited, then I am completely understanding. I will not be offended in any way.
ETA: The e-invite was only sent to my husband and addressed not to him but to his e-mail address.
Thanks ladies!
I have an etiquette question, as I did not have an engagement party. My husband's close friend is getting married. He is an old high school friend, who I know in passing (He was one of the groomsmen at our wedding) Yesturday, he told my husband he was getting married (YEAH!) and that he wanted my husband to be a groomsman. Now I know that I'm invited to the wedding because they briefly discussed where to seat me because I don't know anyone.
Today my husband got this e-invite. And both of us can't figure out if I'm invited or not!
I'm copying and pasting:
REPLY HERE
Will you attend?
Yes No Maybe
Total guests 1 (including you)
I mean it says 1, so I assume that's my husband. That 1 was filled in, but you can change it to a 2.
And I REALLY, REALLY don't want him to ask his friend, because I think that's rude, because then he'll be put in the position to say yes, even if it's no. And there might be all sorts of space/budget constraints that I don't know about.
Added, I don't know the girl well (only met her once) and the guy, only casually.
And I really don't mind either way. If I'm invited OF COURSE I will go because he was a big part of our wedding (and bring appropriately generous gift), and if I'm not invited, then I am completely understanding. I will not be offended in any way.
ETA: The e-invite was only sent to my husband and addressed not to him but to his e-mail address.
Thanks ladies!