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chantal990

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Ok I don''t really like thiese things cause I never know what to write but here goes nothing..........................

Well to start with I am 23 years old (almost 24) and I live in Melbourne, Australia. I am extremely blessed in that I have two families due to being put up for adoption at birth and later finding my birth family. I also am engaged to a fantastic boy-man (boy of a man maturity of a small child
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I had a pretty good childhood and was raised to be the right proper little lady but they failed miserably.

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My biggest memories are torturing my little brother. I used to make him wear dresses and do his hair and makeup. I also once terrorised him for months cause he ate watermelon seeds and I told him that a watermelon was growing in his tummy and it was going to have to be cut out of him which would cost a lot of money so mum and dad would probably just let him die. I also measured him every day to tell him how much bigger he''d grown and finally I put some leaves on his pillow and told him they''d come out his ears while he was sleeping. That''s when he freaked and went to mum and I got a hiding. Also climbing on to the roof of our house to play tag with the other kids in the area and getting into trouble for that.
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I was a brat of a teenager who had a real “you can’t tell me to do that” attitude. And as such I left school early and went to work instead. Although my adoptive parents were told that it was mainly cause I was too smart for my classes. I have completed part time studies though after realising that and education can be a good thing.


My love for gems began with my adoptive Grandmother who was the daughter of a wealthy family that married beneath her (my adoptive grandfather was a carpenter before he retired) and although her family lost most of it’s cash in the depression they weren’t as badly hit as some and managed to keep the house and family jewels safe. The jewels are important as the family was originally French and fled the revolution to London and eventually Australia and the jewels have been handed down from oldest daughter to eldest daughter since then. So growing up I got to see these fab jewels every time we went over to visit as they were my AG’s pride and joy. Unfortunately when she passed away a few years ago my AM (adoptive mother) had a lot of the pieces melted down to make new jewellery pieces for herself.


Six years ago at Christmas I went to a friends house for Christmas night drinks and I met my FI. I spoke to him a bit that night thought he was cute but didn’t really think too much about him until seeing him a few more times at my friend’s house. Then he finally asked me out at the beach one day and I accepted to go out to a club with him that night. Now being a bit nervous I drank a bit more than usual and ended up asking him at the door if he was going to “grow some uh-hums and kiss me or what” he did and he actually called me after that and we have been together ever since. He has been there for me through family deaths, finding my birth family (including a brother & sister I never knew I had and finding out that my father committed suicide within a year of my birth), unemployment everything and so I love him even more for it.


We picked the ring out in January 2004 and Future Mr Emeraldgirl was waiting for the right time to propose. We were on holiday at the Whitsunday along the Great Barrier Reef in QLD. One of the things that I mentioned I had wanted to do the last time we were there but we never got to get around to do was to go on a helicopter ride. So we had a look this time we were up there and there was a ride out to a deserted island where you got a picnic lunch and a few hours alone on the island. So we booked it in went down to the airport had our champers while we were waiting for our flight and Peter looked nervous which when I asked him he told me was due to fear of flying in a helicopter. So we got out to the island and had our lunch and as we went for a walk along the beach after lunch he managed to stutter his way through a speech and ask me to marry him which I happily accepted and then we kept a secret from friends and family until we got home a few days later so we had some time to ourselves to enjoy the moment.
 
That''s lovely Chantal! I''m keen to hear more about you still. What are your obsessions other than gems?
 
Ahhh, I knew I liked you...I used to torture my little brother too by tying him to his chair and forcing him to play beauty parlor! (it''s okay-he turned out "normal"
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You have such an interesting life. It is amazing you''ve found and developed relationships with your birth family. Congrats on finding your soulmate!
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EG, what a great bio!
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I was a younger sibling so I was the one being tortured!
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It wasn''t anything like what you described but it was frightening nonetheless.

How nice that you found true love and like Jenn said, it''s so cool that you have relationships with both your families. That''s soooooo kewl.

~kmom
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Date: 1/25/2005 3
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9:21 AM
Author: Camellia
That''s lovely Chantal! I''m keen to hear more about you still. What are your obsessions other than gems?
My other obsessions are my dog
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(she''s just so cute and loving), history (I am a total bookworm for European History), tarot (I have been reading the cards since I was 11 and my friends mum taught me), travel and the beach. I am also a complete music wh*re I listen to anything
 
We''ll have to meet for coffee when I''m next in Melbourne!
 
Definately. I work on Collins Street in the CBD so anywhere in Melbourne is great
 
Block Arcade, Flinders Lane? I love visiting Melbourne.
 
Speaking from the point of view of the youngest boy in a family of sven with four girls I have nothng but scorn for you
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Nice story
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Date: 1/26/2005 7:51:55 PM
Author: Platinumsmith
Speaking from the point of view of the youngest boy in a family of sven with four girls I have nothng but scorn for you
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Nice story
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Did your sisters pick on you? Hee, hee.
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What do you mean did?, they still do
 
Date: 1/26/2005 7:35
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Author: Camellia
Block Arcade, Flinders Lane? I love visiting Melbourne.
Yeah I''d love to.

PlatinumSmith - If I was bad my birth sister was worse. My birth brother used to scream and drop to the ground everytime a plane or helicopter went past. My mother couldn''t figure out why until she overheard my darling sister telling him that they were all out to get him and they will drop out of the sky onto his head and crush him. He still looks worried everytime a something flies past. And my birth mother was even worse she tried to give her brother away to strangers at the supermarket
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. I think it must be genetic
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I like these stories - keep them coming!
 
Ok well this one was my Birht mother''s partner''s childhood naughtyness. He was at the beach one day and decided to build a sandcastle but being annoyed that the bigger kids always came and kicked them down and jumped on them at the end of the day he built his around a huge rock and sat back to watch. ZSure enough someone came walking along the beach at sunset after most of the kids had gone and saw the sandcastle ran up took an almighty swing kicked it and promptly broke his toes. Ok I have to admit I still laugh at the mental picture of that one
 
That''s a good one Chantal!
 
Date: 1/26/2005 8:11:17 PM
Author: Emeraldgirl
Date: 1/26/2005 7:35
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Author: Camellia

Block Arcade, Flinders Lane? I love visiting Melbourne.

Yeah I''d love to.


PlatinumSmith - If I was bad my birth sister was worse. My birth brother used to scream and drop to the ground everytime a plane or helicopter went past. My mother couldn''t figure out why until she overheard my darling sister telling him that they were all out to get him and they will drop out of the sky onto his head and crush him. He still looks worried everytime a something flies past. And my birth mother was even worse she tried to give her brother away to strangers at the supermarket
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. I think it must be genetic
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My Dad was a policeman, so in my family, the older kids told the younger ones that my Dad picked them up at the Police Dept and that if they didn''t behave, we would send them back there and they''d be put back in jail. Scared the heck out of them for a few years anyway!
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I like that one. It''s things like this that have made me sure that I am not a maternal type that and the fact that I have an other half who was jsut as bad if not worse than I was and I was a brat already.
 
I did get a kick out of your description of your FI - boy-man.
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That probably fits me well too. There is that little child inside me that fortunately has never gone away.

Treasue it - it helps you see life in wonderful ways and can bring back reality when all the world around you (aka your job/work) seems like Alice in Wonderland.

And it will keep you laughing!
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Oh I love his silly side it foes so well with my own.
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I just don''t think I could handle children that have our brattish traits especially when I think of all the times I heard "I hope one day when you have kids they''re as naughty as you are" it''s such a scary thought
 
Here''s a pic of me and my FI

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