I hope this is the right place to post this..Apologies in advance for the length.. I keep thinking of more to add as I go. So, I have started talking to a jeweller who seems really great, but I am still uncertain and having trouble visualising what I want.
First things first. The essentials
- Finger size is about a 4 (i.e. small)
- Low-ish profile - around 0.5 mm from base of head to top of diamond (RB ~ 0.4ct)
- Solitaire
- Prong setting
I am looking to get 2 accent stones set in the shoulders like this, but they would be amethysts.

I only want 2, as they represent my FI and my birthstone.
What I like is
- they are "buried", so you wouldn't see them from the top. Not my hand btw.

The things I am not sure about
- The image above holds a 1ct... how will this even look with 0.4ct stone
- The thickness of shoulders (I prefer a thin band and probably only 2-3mm wide) - I don't want them to look chunky
- The split-shank look.. I would really prefer a straight band, but this means no shoulder for embedded amethysts
- The head will be different (something along lines of something along the lines of
This, or this), so not sure how shoulders will work anyway
- The amethysts. If I am getting a band that is not very wide, I imagine the stones will be no more than 1mm.
So, is there another way I can incorporate the amethysts? I don't want them under the band. Failing all this, given the size of them, is it even worth building the whole ring design around them? I feel like there are too many elements I like that won't mesh well together at all.... It's driving me mad.
First things first. The essentials
- Finger size is about a 4 (i.e. small)
- Low-ish profile - around 0.5 mm from base of head to top of diamond (RB ~ 0.4ct)
- Solitaire
- Prong setting
I am looking to get 2 accent stones set in the shoulders like this, but they would be amethysts.

I only want 2, as they represent my FI and my birthstone.
What I like is
- they are "buried", so you wouldn't see them from the top. Not my hand btw.

The things I am not sure about
- The image above holds a 1ct... how will this even look with 0.4ct stone
- The thickness of shoulders (I prefer a thin band and probably only 2-3mm wide) - I don't want them to look chunky
- The split-shank look.. I would really prefer a straight band, but this means no shoulder for embedded amethysts
- The head will be different (something along lines of something along the lines of
This, or this), so not sure how shoulders will work anyway
- The amethysts. If I am getting a band that is not very wide, I imagine the stones will be no more than 1mm.
So, is there another way I can incorporate the amethysts? I don't want them under the band. Failing all this, given the size of them, is it even worth building the whole ring design around them? I feel like there are too many elements I like that won't mesh well together at all.... It's driving me mad.