Hi ladies,
I would love your opinion on the situation.
A friend of mine had sent me am e-mail previously stating the 3 dresses to avoid because she was considering them and she wanted me to know which dresses were off limits because neither she nor me wanted the same dress.
This friend's wedding is 1 month after mine.
To be honest I was taken back abit by that e-mail, I felt it was rude of her to tell me what dresses I can and cannot look at, before I even set foot into any bridal store.
So I did not look up the dress at all.
But I just came back from shopping and I am in a better mood and decided to look up the dresses she told me were off limits and its turns out that we both like the same dress.
I now feel kind of bad and am not sure what to do.
Any opinions? suggestions?
Do I not consider the dress at all even though I really really like it because she "called dibs" on it??
Or do I still keep it in the running despite her liking it as well??
(She sent me a choice of 3 dresses ... she hasn't exaclty picked one out yet though so I still don't know if the dress we both like will get picked by her or not)
I would love your opinion on the situation.
A friend of mine had sent me am e-mail previously stating the 3 dresses to avoid because she was considering them and she wanted me to know which dresses were off limits because neither she nor me wanted the same dress.
This friend's wedding is 1 month after mine.
To be honest I was taken back abit by that e-mail, I felt it was rude of her to tell me what dresses I can and cannot look at, before I even set foot into any bridal store.
So I did not look up the dress at all.
But I just came back from shopping and I am in a better mood and decided to look up the dresses she told me were off limits and its turns out that we both like the same dress.
I now feel kind of bad and am not sure what to do.
Any opinions? suggestions?
Do I not consider the dress at all even though I really really like it because she "called dibs" on it??
Or do I still keep it in the running despite her liking it as well??
(She sent me a choice of 3 dresses ... she hasn't exaclty picked one out yet though so I still don't know if the dress we both like will get picked by her or not)