Okay scenario
Woman has engagement ring she is not happy with the quality of it, has had it two years, nothing to do with size, price, just quality of the diamonds. Shop she got it from would let her get another for not much more, she was unhappy with it when she first got it and they went back about six months later and got another of same price range complaining to shop she didn''t like quality, store does not grade and did not offer her a loupe or advice on 4Cs or so after studying it at home she found it was same quality, same shop so going to be same, not a certified diamond. Now one year later fiance will not letter her go back for another of better quality and pay a bit more, not thousands maybe about $600. She is very unhappy because she wants to love her ring. She has been told by fiance that she can buy more diamonds for other hand. However she wants the engagement ring to be good quality.
His story is it was a gift from him, he is sentimental about it - she never really knew that. He says it is her original engagement ring, but she says it is not because they changed it half a year later. He doesn''t want to spend any more money on it and says no way it is getting changed. He says she can get more diamonds later for her other hand but not change the engagement ring. She is very unhappy about this and feels stuck. He will not discuss she tries to compare it to him getting a computer he has to keep for life but he says that has no relevance because after a few years it would not work. She doesn''t want to let it go because she feels her ring should be good quality and feels it is less than other people around her has, even though she doesn''t actually know what quality their diamonds are but is assuming they are not like hers. He cannot see anything in the diamond or any fault with it even when she gives him a loupe and points it out to him.
So what do they do, which one wins, does his sentimentality and the fact he sees it as a gift from him win or should be able she get another ring in place of this one and not separate ones for right-hand rings? Is she right and he should change his opinion, but I can''t see that happening. She can''t get past this and says she doesn''t want a more expensive or bigger ring just one the same of good quality. I think it is either feathers or carbon or something she is seeing in the diamond something to do with clarity that he can''t see with a loupe.
Woman has engagement ring she is not happy with the quality of it, has had it two years, nothing to do with size, price, just quality of the diamonds. Shop she got it from would let her get another for not much more, she was unhappy with it when she first got it and they went back about six months later and got another of same price range complaining to shop she didn''t like quality, store does not grade and did not offer her a loupe or advice on 4Cs or so after studying it at home she found it was same quality, same shop so going to be same, not a certified diamond. Now one year later fiance will not letter her go back for another of better quality and pay a bit more, not thousands maybe about $600. She is very unhappy because she wants to love her ring. She has been told by fiance that she can buy more diamonds for other hand. However she wants the engagement ring to be good quality.
His story is it was a gift from him, he is sentimental about it - she never really knew that. He says it is her original engagement ring, but she says it is not because they changed it half a year later. He doesn''t want to spend any more money on it and says no way it is getting changed. He says she can get more diamonds later for her other hand but not change the engagement ring. She is very unhappy about this and feels stuck. He will not discuss she tries to compare it to him getting a computer he has to keep for life but he says that has no relevance because after a few years it would not work. She doesn''t want to let it go because she feels her ring should be good quality and feels it is less than other people around her has, even though she doesn''t actually know what quality their diamonds are but is assuming they are not like hers. He cannot see anything in the diamond or any fault with it even when she gives him a loupe and points it out to him.
So what do they do, which one wins, does his sentimentality and the fact he sees it as a gift from him win or should be able she get another ring in place of this one and not separate ones for right-hand rings? Is she right and he should change his opinion, but I can''t see that happening. She can''t get past this and says she doesn''t want a more expensive or bigger ring just one the same of good quality. I think it is either feathers or carbon or something she is seeing in the diamond something to do with clarity that he can''t see with a loupe.