Steal I really like you. I have always enjoyed your posts. I made that comment the other day because I was worried that you were upset and it didn''t sound like your normal cheerful posts. I wasn''t being horrible and I''m sorry if you thought I was. I have ''known'' you on PS for a long time and always felt like we were friends.
Date: 5/29/2010 9:56:04 AM
Author: Maisie
Thats awful EB. There are so many evil people in this world.
I'm sorry about your son. There is no pain like it.
Date: 5/29/2010 9:45:57 AM
Author: Maisie
Steal I really like you. I have always enjoyed your posts. I made that comment the other day because I was worried that you were upset and it didn''t sound like your normal cheerful posts. I wasn''t being horrible and I''m sorry if you thought I was. I have ''known'' you on PS for a long time and always felt like we were friends.
I would never judge someone for their feelings. We each feel differently about things.
I truly believe that everyone pays for their bad behaviour one day. And I hope its painful and frightening when they do.Date: 5/29/2010 10:05:13 AM
Author: E B
Date: 5/29/2010 9:56:04 AM
Author: Maisie
Thats awful EB. There are so many evil people in this world.
I know.Thankfully, they were both all right, but my grandmother was heavily bruised and broken for a long time. The monster stole everything she had on her, including her wedding ring from her beloved deceased husband. I see red thinking about how scared she must have been. I hate, hate, HATE that man. And I don''t hate easily.
I like to think they''ve got ''misfortune'' coming to them in a big way.
You know that we are here for you and want to help. It doesn''t matter what the problem is. I don''t think there are degrees of need. If you feel that your problem is crippling you, then its no different to anything we have been going through. Its often good to help someone else because then it makes us feel better and less focused on our own issues.Date: 5/29/2010 10:07:38 AM
Author: Steal
I really appreciate that Maisie. It is funny that you post this. Did you ever notice that one of the truest ways to see if a body is depressed is to ask if they are ok; often they just burst into tears. Other than that we just function every day and get things done, but it is nice that somebody asks isn''t it? I''m doing better this month but these past few years have been very low, with the last year being the lowest ever. But I won''t start a pity party because I respect my PS friends and know that many of them; you included have had many changes and challenges recently and a few suffered terrible health and painful losses. I felt for them all and sharing in that pain somehow helped to put my issues into perspective. I never felt better for it but I didn''t feel so alone. I consider us friends too and wish only greatness for you and your children. How are you doing?
Date: 5/29/2010 10:12:47 AM
Author: Maisie
You know that we are here for you and want to help. It doesn''t matter what the problem is. I don''t think there are degrees of need. If you feel that your problem is crippling you, then its no different to anything we have been going through. Its often good to help someone else because then it makes us feel better and less focused on our own issues.Date: 5/29/2010 10:07:38 AM
Author: Steal
I really appreciate that Maisie. It is funny that you post this. Did you ever notice that one of the truest ways to see if a body is depressed is to ask if they are ok; often they just burst into tears. Other than that we just function every day and get things done, but it is nice that somebody asks isn''t it? I''m doing better this month but these past few years have been very low, with the last year being the lowest ever. But I won''t start a pity party because I respect my PS friends and know that many of them; you included have had many changes and challenges recently and a few suffered terrible health and painful losses. I felt for them all and sharing in that pain somehow helped to put my issues into perspective. I never felt better for it but I didn''t feel so alone. I consider us friends too and wish only greatness for you and your children. How are you doing?
In the new PS I have heard there will be PM''s. I fully expect and hope that you will get hold of me so I can be there for you if you prefer not to post on the boards.
We are all doing well. Life has moved on and we are a happy little bunch
Date: 5/29/2010 10:15:22 AM
Author: Irishgrrrl
Date: 5/29/2010 10:12:47 AM
Author: Maisie
Date: 5/29/2010 10:07:38 AM
Author: Steal
I really appreciate that Maisie. It is funny that you post this. Did you ever notice that one of the truest ways to see if a body is depressed is to ask if they are ok; often they just burst into tears. Other than that we just function every day and get things done, but it is nice that somebody asks isn''t it? I''m doing better this month but these past few years have been very low, with the last year being the lowest ever. But I won''t start a pity party because I respect my PS friends and know that many of them; you included have had many changes and challenges recently and a few suffered terrible health and painful losses. I felt for them all and sharing in that pain somehow helped to put my issues into perspective. I never felt better for it but I didn''t feel so alone. I consider us friends too and wish only greatness for you and your children. How are you doing?
You know that we are here for you and want to help. It doesn''t matter what the problem is. I don''t think there are degrees of need. If you feel that your problem is crippling you, then its no different to anything we have been going through. Its often good to help someone else because then it makes us feel better and less focused on our own issues.
In the new PS I have heard there will be PM''s. I fully expect and hope that you will get hold of me so I can be there for you if you prefer not to post on the boards.
We are all doing well. Life has moved on and we are a happy little bunch
Date: 5/29/2010 10:15:22 AM
Author: Irishgrrrl
Date: 5/29/2010 10:12:47 AM
Author: Maisie
You know that we are here for you and want to help. It doesn''t matter what the problem is. I don''t think there are degrees of need. If you feel that your problem is crippling you, then its no different to anything we have been going through. Its often good to help someone else because then it makes us feel better and less focused on our own issues.Date: 5/29/2010 10:07:38 AM
Author: Steal
I really appreciate that Maisie. It is funny that you post this. Did you ever notice that one of the truest ways to see if a body is depressed is to ask if they are ok; often they just burst into tears. Other than that we just function every day and get things done, but it is nice that somebody asks isn''t it? I''m doing better this month but these past few years have been very low, with the last year being the lowest ever. But I won''t start a pity party because I respect my PS friends and know that many of them; you included have had many changes and challenges recently and a few suffered terrible health and painful losses. I felt for them all and sharing in that pain somehow helped to put my issues into perspective. I never felt better for it but I didn''t feel so alone. I consider us friends too and wish only greatness for you and your children. How are you doing?
In the new PS I have heard there will be PM''s. I fully expect and hope that you will get hold of me so I can be there for you if you prefer not to post on the boards.
We are all doing well. Life has moved on and we are a happy little bunch
Date: 5/29/2010 10:16:48 AM
Author: E B
Date: 5/29/2010 10:15:22 AM
Author: Irishgrrrl
Date: 5/29/2010 10:12:47 AM
Author: Maisie
Date: 5/29/2010 10:07:38 AM
Author: Steal
I really appreciate that Maisie. It is funny that you post this. Did you ever notice that one of the truest ways to see if a body is depressed is to ask if they are ok; often they just burst into tears. Other than that we just function every day and get things done, but it is nice that somebody asks isn''t it? I''m doing better this month but these past few years have been very low, with the last year being the lowest ever. But I won''t start a pity party because I respect my PS friends and know that many of them; you included have had many changes and challenges recently and a few suffered terrible health and painful losses. I felt for them all and sharing in that pain somehow helped to put my issues into perspective. I never felt better for it but I didn''t feel so alone. I consider us friends too and wish only greatness for you and your children. How are you doing?
You know that we are here for you and want to help. It doesn''t matter what the problem is. I don''t think there are degrees of need. If you feel that your problem is crippling you, then its no different to anything we have been going through. Its often good to help someone else because then it makes us feel better and less focused on our own issues.
In the new PS I have heard there will be PM''s. I fully expect and hope that you will get hold of me so I can be there for you if you prefer not to post on the boards.
We are all doing well. Life has moved on and we are a happy little bunch
And morefrom me!
Date: 5/29/2010 10:18:37 AM
Author: Maisie
Date: 5/29/2010 10:15:22 AM
Author: Irishgrrrl
Date: 5/29/2010 10:12:47 AM
Author: Maisie
You know that we are here for you and want to help. It doesn''t matter what the problem is. I don''t think there are degrees of need. If you feel that your problem is crippling you, then its no different to anything we have been going through. Its often good to help someone else because then it makes us feel better and less focused on our own issues.Date: 5/29/2010 10:07:38 AM
Author: Steal
I really appreciate that Maisie. It is funny that you post this. Did you ever notice that one of the truest ways to see if a body is depressed is to ask if they are ok; often they just burst into tears. Other than that we just function every day and get things done, but it is nice that somebody asks isn''t it? I''m doing better this month but these past few years have been very low, with the last year being the lowest ever. But I won''t start a pity party because I respect my PS friends and know that many of them; you included have had many changes and challenges recently and a few suffered terrible health and painful losses. I felt for them all and sharing in that pain somehow helped to put my issues into perspective. I never felt better for it but I didn''t feel so alone. I consider us friends too and wish only greatness for you and your children. How are you doing?
In the new PS I have heard there will be PM''s. I fully expect and hope that you will get hold of me so I can be there for you if you prefer not to post on the boards.
We are all doing well. Life has moved on and we are a happy little bunchI should add that my eldest son is moving in with his girlfriend soon and I can''t wait. He is a right royal pain in the rear end to live with!
Sorry I hijacked your thread Kenny. I shall shut up now unless its about hating someone.
Steal, I am so sorry you''re going through a rough time. You were one of the first posters that I felt a strange closeness to (because of a thread I created about my mum). I know nothing I say can make things better, but I just wanted you to know I have you in my thoughts. Please don''t feel alone. If you ever need to talk, we''re always here to offer support and encouragement. Hugs.Date: 5/29/2010 10:07:38 AM
Author: Steal
I really appreciate that Maisie. It is funny that you post this. Did you ever notice that one of the truest ways to see if a body is depressed is to ask if they are ok; often they just burst into tears. Other than that we just function every day and get things done, but it is nice that somebody asks isn''t it? I''m doing better this month but these past few years have been very low, with the last year being the lowest ever. But I won''t start a pity party because I respect my PS friends and know that many of them; you included have had many changes and challenges recently and a few suffered terrible health and painful losses. I felt for them all and sharing in that pain somehow helped to put my issues into perspective. I never felt better for it but I didn''t feel so alone. I consider us friends too and wish only greatness for you and your children. How are you doing?
I remember and felt that too. That is the thing though, while I would love that you all just ''knew'' I don''t really go in for major drama posts. It would be great to get support without having to explain because it is all so long, sad and boring. But ultimately I am scared that my situation is so unique that I will be found. I did try to go anon (ha, even I think going anon is silly) once but I couldn''t be bothered trying to set up a new e-mail account. I love that I have this support here, thank you.
Haha, thank you kindly, there are many things that could help me but "I don't think there's anything in that black bag for me".
TTC! Wow, so exciting! Hope your house gets done soon...and you can replace being covered with dust to being covered with baby purge!Date: 5/29/2010 11:10:07 AM
Author: Steal
Haha, thank you kindly, there are many things that could help me but ''I don''t think there''s anything in that black bag for me''.
It really is not me to play the violin, I suppose the advent of 2.0 has liberated me. So please don''t worry too much. I''m over the hump so to speak and looking forward. DH and I are TTC and very very excited about that and we have 1/3 of a house to live in so I am trying to concentrate on good things. That said, we all wallow from time to time and this eclipse so to speak in PS has allowed me to wallow in the shade; but when daylight comes again the evidence will all be gone.
ETA: Thank you too, onedrop.
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