Do you hate anyone?

[iota15]

Date: 5/28/2010 10:13:45 PM
Author: brazen_irish_hussy
Not really, but I used to. Most of them I am simply indiferent to, but haven''t really forgiven either. The few caught up by karma I have forgiven.

The only one I can''t get over I don''t really hate, but I hate seeing his picture on FB. Just because he is pious now doesn''t mean what he did to me didn''t happen. And it might have been 10 years ago after him going through a really bad time and he was drunk, but that doesn''t justify what he did and even though he has a wife and kids, I would still like to see karma get him.

Are you okay, BIH? I know it''s been a long time but if you ever want to talk about it, know we''re here for you.

 

[iluvcarats]

Date: 5/29/2010 8:01:19 AM
Author: Circe

Date: 5/28/2010 11:10:45 PM

Author: iluvcarats

I don''t hate anyone, but there are people who I will never have anything to do with ever again. I don''t hate them or wish bad things on them, but they are not welcome in my life anymore.

Very well said. This goes for me, too, on the one-on-one level.


As an example ... after my miscarriage, one of my closest friends just stopped talking to me. She wasn''t there for me when I needed her, and now I don''t need her. If she''d told me it was too heavy, it triggered her personal issues, anything, I could have let it go. As it is, while I don''t wish her poorly, I don''t ever want to hear anything from or about her again.


Of course, when we get onto people who are actively malicious, malignant, and evil - Fred Phelps and the like? For them, I have enough hate to go around.

Luckily, I have not encountered anything truly horrible. (Knock on wood) If anyone raped, murdered or injured me or anyone I love I would probably spend all of my time making voodoo dolls.

 

[Bleed Burnt Orange]

4ever, I feel the same way as what you wrote! I have dreams where she misses me and says sorry and I wake up mad at myself for even entertaining the idea of forgiving her.

I also just want to punch her soooo hard in the face!!!

I''m glad she doesn''t occupy my thoughts every day anymore but for over a year she did. Any time I do think of her I am angry and hurt all over again which makes me mad at myself.

I too was friends with that *itch for 8 years!!!

 

[Lilac]

Date: 5/29/2010 5:32:33 PM
Author: 4ever

Date: 5/29/2010 11:22:59 AM

Author: Bleed Burnt Orange

Oh yes I do! She hurt me so badly that I still think about it, 3 years later. She turned her back on me and cut me out of her life with no warning and no explanation. She did it during a time in my life where all I wanted was a friend and she was the closest friend I had.

I HATE her!!

What I hate more is that she's going about her life doing the things she always wanted to do. I'm stuck being so hurt and upset because I never had closure.

Because I have A LOT of memories with her, majority of my college experience, I refer to her by an appropriate nickname instead of her real name! Part of it rhymes with witch.

This is EXACTLY what happened to me. No explanation or justification, she just cut me out of her life and ended our almost 10 year friendship. That really hurts like nothing else. You can read on pg1 of this thread just how a feel about her.

This same thing happened to me too. Exactly the same thing. One day we were best friends - the next she didn't return my phone calls or emails and she literally never spoke to me again. No explanation or justification. No argument. Nothing. She just decided to move on without telling me, after we had been BEST friends for several years. It hurt so much, and while I did get angry and I hate her for it all, the worst part is that I still miss her and the friendship we used to have.

The other person I hate is my uncle's wife. I explained it all in detail in the "PS post won't live forever" thread in the beginning of it (maybe like page 2 or 3). Very long story (as you can see there) so I won't go into it again. Basically she truly is a perfect example of an evil person and I hate her more than I even knew I was capable of hating another human being (if you can call her that). She is just an absolutely AWFUL person.

I *very* strongly dislike my stepfather because he isn't nice to anyone other than his own brothers and "his" son and he doesn't make my mother happy (and he doesn't even try). He isn't nice to me or to my husband. He is a very selfish person. I do say I hate him, but not nearly on the same level as my uncle's wife.

ETA: I also wanted to tell Steal that I'm so sorry you're going through a rough time. I hope it gets better soon. *hugs*

 

[lulu]

Yes, two people, a now married couple. They hate me too. Most of the time the beast sleeps and I feel better. But when it emerges I wish bad things on them and I feel horrible about myself. I keep trying to let go of it and I only see them a few times each year now, so maybe it will get easier.

 

[Diamond*Dana]

Date: 5/30/2010 12:19:56 PM
Author: lulu
Yes, two people, a now married couple. They hate me too. Most of the time the beast sleeps and I feel better. But when it emerges I wish bad things on them and I feel horrible about myself. I keep trying to let go of it and I only see them a few times each year now, so maybe it will get easier.

People would be shocked at the things I wish would happen to the monster that murdered my cousin and tore up our family. I just cannot forgive that...I''ve tried, but I can''t.

 

[Steel]

Date: 5/30/2010 12:31:06 PM
Author: Diamond*Dana

People would be shocked at the things I wish would happen to the monster that murdered my cousin and tore up our family. I just cannot forgive that...I''ve tried, but I can''t.

I don''t believe in Karma. I don''t believe in ''just deserts''. But I do believe that society shelters many creatures that are sub-human whose behaviour deserves nothing less than death. I''m sorry for your loss, which should not have happened.

 

[sba771]

Sort of- I used to hate my father with such a passion. Lots of therapy has gotten me to the point of almost indifference, which is healthier for me, although I am not there 100% and look forward to the day when the past has truly passed.

 

[Miscka]

Date: 5/30/2010 1:04:09 AM
Author: Lilac

Date: 5/29/2010 5:32:33 PM

Author: 4ever

Date: 5/29/2010 11:22:59 AM


Author: Bleed Burnt Orange


Oh yes I do! She hurt me so badly that I still think about it, 3 years later. She turned her back on me and cut me out of her life with no warning and no explanation. She did it during a time in my life where all I wanted was a friend and she was the closest friend I had.


I HATE her!!


What I hate more is that she''s going about her life doing the things she always wanted to do. I''m stuck being so hurt and upset because I never had closure.


Because I have A LOT of memories with her, majority of my college experience, I refer to her by an appropriate nickname instead of her real name! Part of it rhymes with witch.

This is EXACTLY what happened to me. No explanation or justification, she just cut me out of her life and ended our almost 10 year friendship. That really hurts like nothing else. You can read on pg1 of this thread just how a feel about her.

This same thing happened to me too. Exactly the same thing. One day we were best friends - the next she didn''t return my phone calls or emails and she literally never spoke to me again. No explanation or justification. No argument. Nothing. She just decided to move on without telling me, after we had been BEST friends for several years. It hurt so much, and while I did get angry and I hate her for it all, the worst part is that I still miss her and the friendship we used to have.

Add me to this little subset...my exBFF hurt me worse than ANYONE ever had, and I am not sure I HATE her, because I still miss her

I think that makes me lame, but I definitely hated her at one point!

 

[4ever]

Date: 5/30/2010 6:45:25 PM
Author: Miscka

Date: 5/30/2010 1:04:09 AM
Author: Lilac

Date: 5/29/2010 5:32:33 PM

Author: 4ever

Date: 5/29/2010 11:22:59 AM


Author: Bleed Burnt Orange


Oh yes I do! She hurt me so badly that I still think about it, 3 years later. She turned her back on me and cut me out of her life with no warning and no explanation. She did it during a time in my life where all I wanted was a friend and she was the closest friend I had.


I HATE her!!


What I hate more is that she''s going about her life doing the things she always wanted to do. I''m stuck being so hurt and upset because I never had closure.


Because I have A LOT of memories with her, majority of my college experience, I refer to her by an appropriate nickname instead of her real name! Part of it rhymes with witch.

This is EXACTLY what happened to me. No explanation or justification, she just cut me out of her life and ended our almost 10 year friendship. That really hurts like nothing else. You can read on pg1 of this thread just how a feel about her.

This same thing happened to me too. Exactly the same thing. One day we were best friends - the next she didn''t return my phone calls or emails and she literally never spoke to me again. No explanation or justification. No argument. Nothing. She just decided to move on without telling me, after we had been BEST friends for several years. It hurt so much, and while I did get angry and I hate her for it all, the worst part is that I still miss her and the friendship we used to have.

Add me to this little subset...my exBFF hurt me worse than ANYONE ever had, and I am not sure I HATE her, because I still miss her

I think that makes me lame, but I definitely hated her at one point!

I can''t belive this has happened to so many people here, I''m sorry for what all you ladies went through with these ex-friends, no one deserves to go though this

.

I have spent alot of time analyzing our "friendship" in my head over the past year, in particular the end of it. I just think she is a coward; She picked the easiest way for her and the hardest possible for me. Cutting some one out like that just to avoid a confutation is extreamly childish and selfish, but that''s what it took for me to understand what a horrible person she is and what a horrible and selfish friend she was to me.

I would never throw someone away like that.

I hope we all find closure.

 

[Lilac]

Date: 5/30/2010 8:55:13 PM
Author: 4ever

Date: 5/30/2010 6:45:25 PM

Author: Miscka

Date: 5/30/2010 1:04:09 AM

Author: Lilac

Date: 5/29/2010 5:32:33 PM

Author: 4ever

Date: 5/29/2010 11:22:59 AM

Author: Bleed Burnt Orange

Oh yes I do! She hurt me so badly that I still think about it, 3 years later. She turned her back on me and cut me out of her life with no warning and no explanation. She did it during a time in my life where all I wanted was a friend and she was the closest friend I had.

I HATE her!!

What I hate more is that she''s going about her life doing the things she always wanted to do. I''m stuck being so hurt and upset because I never had closure.

Because I have A LOT of memories with her, majority of my college experience, I refer to her by an appropriate nickname instead of her real name! Part of it rhymes with witch.

This is EXACTLY what happened to me. No explanation or justification, she just cut me out of her life and ended our almost 10 year friendship. That really hurts like nothing else. You can read on pg1 of this thread just how a feel about her.

This same thing happened to me too. Exactly the same thing. One day we were best friends - the next she didn''t return my phone calls or emails and she literally never spoke to me again. No explanation or justification. No argument. Nothing. She just decided to move on without telling me, after we had been BEST friends for several years. It hurt so much, and while I did get angry and I hate her for it all, the worst part is that I still miss her and the friendship we used to have.

Add me to this little subset...my exBFF hurt me worse than ANYONE ever had, and I am not sure I HATE her, because I still miss her

I think that makes me lame, but I definitely hated her at one point!

I can''t belive this has happened to so many people here, I''m sorry for what all you ladies went through with these ex-friends, no one deserves to go though this

.

I have spent alot of time analyzing our ''friendship'' in my head over the past year, in particular the end of it. I just think she is a coward; She picked the easiest way for her and the hardest possible for me. Cutting some one out like that just to avoid a confutation is extreamly childish and selfish, but that''s what it took for me to understand what a horrible person she is and what a horrible and selfish friend she was to me.

I would never throw someone away like that.

I hope we all find closure.

I''m surprised this has happened to so many people - I''m so sorry you all went through this too.

I always feel kind of stupid for letting it affect me as much as I have. I spent months crying about it daily, then I went through a period of hating her with a passion, then I went through a time where I deeply missed her and felt I would forgive everything if she would just call me and tell me she wanted to be friends again, and then I reached a time when I am still deeply hurt by her and what happened, but I''ve accepted that there''s nothing I can do about it and I am better off without a "friend" like that. I still think about her every day though. You would think after 4 years I would be past it, and you would think it''s not really such a big deal - people go through *so* many worse losses, I feel stupid sometimes being so upset about this. But yet I still am. I don''t even let myself get that close to my friends anymore - not nearly as close as I was to her. I just don''t trust anyone as much anymore - we were SO close and she just dropped me like I didn''t matter, and now I don''t let myself get too close to other friends (not on the same level as I was to her anyway). I guess this must be what a really bad breakup feels like - she was my best friend and then she just decided to break up with me (but didn''t even bother letting me know).

I once saw her about two years ago and I literally had a panic attack. I never had panic attacks before, but I saw her walk into the store I was in and I couldn''t breathe, couldn''t see straight, thought I was going to pass out, felt really sick, and I just felt like my chest was closing in on me and the world was spinning and closing in. It was awful. I still am not sure whether or not she saw me but she didn''t come over and we didn''t speak at all.

I think I do need closure. I wish I could just have one final confrontation with her - face to face. But at the same time I think it would hurt too much.

 

[4ever]

Lilac - I don''t think you should feel stupid for letting it get to you. I still feel stupid for not being able to just let it go but it''s totally understandable, too many hurt feelings and unanswered questions to move on. What is stupid is denying yourself a close relationship with other friends because you''re scared of getting hurt again. Think about how good it was in the beginning to have a friend that close, I bet you had a lot of fun together, don''t you want to have that again? Do you really want her to take future friendships like that away from you?

As for the panic attack, I''ve only seen her once since also and my reaction was similar to yours, hearth pounding, couldn''t breath and just had to get out of there as soon as possible. I don''t even think she saw me. I don''t want to allow somone to have that affect on me. She is a pathetic, immature and cowardly person, what is there to be scared of?

In my dreams I always confrount her and it is resloved one way or another because that is what I need to get over it, not to be friends again but just to get some answers, get a resolution on my terms and have my say since I was denied it at the end of our friendship.

 

[Lilac]

Date: 5/30/2010 11:09:43 PM
Author: 4ever
Lilac - I don''t think you should feel stupid for letting it get to you. I still feel stupid for not being able to just let it go but it''s totally understandable, too many hurt feelings and unanswered questions to move on. What is stupid is denying yourself a close relationship with other friends because you''re scared of getting hurt again. Think about how good it was in the beginning to have a friend that close, I bet you had a lot of fun together, don''t you want to have that again? Do you really want her to take future friendships like that away from you?

As for the panic attack, I''ve only seen her once since also and my reaction was similar to yours, hearth pounding, couldn''t breath and just had to get out of there as soon as possible. I don''t even think she saw me. I don''t want to allow somone to have that affect on me. She is a pathetic, immature and cowardly person, what is there to be scared of?

In my dreams I always confrount her and it is resloved one way or another because that is what I need to get over it, not to be friends again but just to get some answers, get a resolution on my terms and have my say since I was denied it at the end of our friendship.

I totally agree with you about other friendships - I *shouldn''t* let what happened with her prevent me from other close friendships - she *shouldn''t* have that power over me or over my relationships with others. She is immature, selfish, and childish. It''s just so hard to allow myself to be so vulnerable again when she hurt me so badly. The friends I have now would never do that to me - but then again, I really never thought she would either.

In my dreams, I always forgive her and we become best friends again. And then I wake up angry that somewhere in my subconscious I still WANT to be her friend - she obviously isn''t a nice person, but yet somewhere inside my head I STILL want to be friends with her?? I think that makes ME the crazy one.

I just wish I could forget she ever existed, but I keep hearing about her every couple months (she got engaged... she got married... she''s pregnant.... soon she''ll have a baby...) Every time I get her out of my mind, she goes through another big life event, I hear about it somehow, and I feel the pain all over again because I think about how we were supposed to go through all of those big events together. It''s like every single time I start to "get over" her, something new happens and it all comes back!

 

[Nomsdeplume]

I do. I hate my father. Always will.

 

[Lynn B]

Very interesting thread, and such soul-searching posts.

Well, sad to say I do think I have hated one person in my life. I wished bad things would happen to her (although I never did anything bad to her) and I was really happy the day she died -- so I guess that qualifies as hate. Doesn''t that sound awful to say??!! But it''s true. It was my MIL and she was a vicious, manipulative, horrible person. HOW my DH ever came out of HER I will never know.

Other than that, I have disliked a few people, and a few people drive me mildly crazeee

-- but true hatred? Just once. And once was more than enough.

 

[Amber St. Clare]

I still hate Usama Bin Laden with firey intensity. I don''t think I will ever get over Sept. 11.

 

[Amethyste]

I do hate someone!

My neighbor!!! He''s nosy and wants to know everything!!!! I cannot stand people who does not respect people''s privacy!

 

[marcy]

I have in the past sometimes but got over those emotions. Right now; no one I can think of that I hate.

 

[Italiahaircolor]

Yes...two people.

My older sister, who I believe to be perhaps the most evil person I''ve ever had the displeasure of knowing. She is manipulative, cunning, selfish, ruthless and untrustworthy-just to name a few. She has caused so much hurt and pain within my family it''s really unforgivable. I often pray that she will just go away, disappear, leave us all alone...but so long as there is something she wants--and the "something" is always changing--she''ll be around. I''ll never be okay with that...and it kills me.

My estranged friends husband. I watched him take a normal, healthy, bright, confident, beautiful young woman and shred her to ribbons with his pure evilness. Last time we spoke she was shell of her former self...like he just slowly drained the happiness from her drip by drip. I miss her everyday...and I full on blame him for stealing her from me and everyone else who loved her. He never deserved her...and instead of knowing that and appreciating that she loved him in spite of himself, he just robbed her of everything and keeps her in this teetering state of entrapment. If I ever had the chance, I would put him up against a wall...

 

[Cehrabehra]

No, there is no one I hate. I used to have people I thought I hated but I don''t hate them. hate is a bitter pill that hurts me more than them... and that''s not why I don''t hate people... I just don''t I guess. Sometimes I hate groups of people like people who voted for a certain two term president prior to the one we have now... lol (especially the ones who voted for him the second time when they should have known better lol)

 

[Cehrabehra]

Date: 5/28/2010 11:36:21 PM
Author: packrat
I hated a guy when I was in high school. And then a couple years after graduation he was killed in a car accident. Outside, I shrugged and said whatever. Inside, I smiled.


Otherwise, I can''t say as I hate anyone, besides like, child killers/molesters.

wow - I could never do that... I would feel guilty. There was a girl I didn''t like in high school who was killed in a car accident a few years after graduation and I just felt sad... I felt sad that maybe she had grown up and changed, I felt sad that she wouldn''t get the opportunity. I just felt bad for her family. I feel no joy in someone else''s pain, ever. No matter what they did to me. It just isn''t in me to rejoice in that stuff. To me THAT is when Karma is gonna come kick my butt.

 

[Arkteia]

I wanted to say, no one. But, honestly, there is one person I absolutely hate. He, probably unknowingly, caused severe illness of my parents and I am not even sure if my mother's leukemia was not the result of that illness. A sad story. I also hate myself for keeping friends with him for many years before all of it happened, knowing that he was a scum. I would like to meet him once...not to say what I think of him but to ask what really set the chain of events that led to the illness of my parents. I doubt that he will tell, though, he had always been a coward. All that I am positive of is that he is alive and well, because people in his family lived well in to their 90-es.

 

[Madam Bijoux]

Yes. I hate the piece of sub-human scum who drove a dear friend of mine to kill himself. I would love to see that thing lying in the street bleeding so that I could walk by, look him in the eye and laugh my arse off.

 

[Bleed Burnt Orange]

Date: 5/30/2010 10:40:05 PM
Author: Lilac

Date: 5/30/2010 8:55:13 PM
Author: 4ever

Date: 5/30/2010 6:45:25 PM

Author: Miscka

Date: 5/30/2010 1:04:09 AM

Author: Lilac

Date: 5/29/2010 5:32:33 PM

Author: 4ever

Date: 5/29/2010 11:22:59 AM

Author: Bleed Burnt Orange

Oh yes I do! She hurt me so badly that I still think about it, 3 years later. She turned her back on me and cut me out of her life with no warning and no explanation. She did it during a time in my life where all I wanted was a friend and she was the closest friend I had.

I HATE her!!

What I hate more is that she''s going about her life doing the things she always wanted to do. I''m stuck being so hurt and upset because I never had closure.

Because I have A LOT of memories with her, majority of my college experience, I refer to her by an appropriate nickname instead of her real name! Part of it rhymes with witch.

This is EXACTLY what happened to me. No explanation or justification, she just cut me out of her life and ended our almost 10 year friendship. That really hurts like nothing else. You can read on pg1 of this thread just how a feel about her.

This same thing happened to me too. Exactly the same thing. One day we were best friends - the next she didn''t return my phone calls or emails and she literally never spoke to me again. No explanation or justification. No argument. Nothing. She just decided to move on without telling me, after we had been BEST friends for several years. It hurt so much, and while I did get angry and I hate her for it all, the worst part is that I still miss her and the friendship we used to have.

Add me to this little subset...my exBFF hurt me worse than ANYONE ever had, and I am not sure I HATE her, because I still miss her

I think that makes me lame, but I definitely hated her at one point!

I can''t belive this has happened to so many people here, I''m sorry for what all you ladies went through with these ex-friends, no one deserves to go though this

.

I have spent alot of time analyzing our ''friendship'' in my head over the past year, in particular the end of it. I just think she is a coward; She picked the easiest way for her and the hardest possible for me. Cutting some one out like that just to avoid a confutation is extreamly childish and selfish, but that''s what it took for me to understand what a horrible person she is and what a horrible and selfish friend she was to me.

I would never throw someone away like that.

I hope we all find closure.

I''m surprised this has happened to so many people - I''m so sorry you all went through this too.

I always feel kind of stupid for letting it affect me as much as I have. I spent months crying about it daily, then I went through a period of hating her with a passion, then I went through a time where I deeply missed her and felt I would forgive everything if she would just call me and tell me she wanted to be friends again, and then I reached a time when I am still deeply hurt by her and what happened, but I''ve accepted that there''s nothing I can do about it and I am better off without a ''friend'' like that. I still think about her every day though. You would think after 4 years I would be past it, and you would think it''s not really such a big deal - people go through *so* many worse losses, I feel stupid sometimes being so upset about this. But yet I still am. I don''t even let myself get that close to my friends anymore - not nearly as close as I was to her. I just don''t trust anyone as much anymore - we were SO close and she just dropped me like I didn''t matter, and now I don''t let myself get too close to other friends (not on the same level as I was to her anyway). I guess this must be what a really bad breakup feels like - she was my best friend and then she just decided to break up with me (but didn''t even bother letting me know).

I once saw her about two years ago and I literally had a panic attack. I never had panic attacks before, but I saw her walk into the store I was in and I couldn''t breathe, couldn''t see straight, thought I was going to pass out, felt really sick, and I just felt like my chest was closing in on me and the world was spinning and closing in. It was awful. I still am not sure whether or not she saw me but she didn''t come over and we didn''t speak at all.

I think I do need closure. I wish I could just have one final confrontation with her - face to face. But at the same time I think it would hurt too much.

I''m glad I haven''t run into her. She lived in Austin for a few years after I graduated and I would always be conscious of the possibility of seeing her around. Her parents still live where my parents live too, and I go running sometimes close to their house. I hope I never see her parents, who liked me, and don''t know how much of an evil beyotch their daughter is, so would probably dislike me now, or her sisters who...I''m sure know their sister is a dumb beyotch but are too intimidated to slap her in the face and abandon her a$$. (did I just say that?)

It''s crazy how similar my feelings are toward this chick to what you all have mentioned. The thoughts of reconciling a friendship even though I would NEVER do that, and am mad thinking about it.

I''m definitely still hurt by it. Sometimes I think that karma bit ME in the butt because of how hurt I still feel and that I''m unhappy with my job situation while she''s doing the things she always wanted to do. Oh well...I have my fiance, and he''s been there for me for a while now. He knew her and knows what she''s like and tells me that I''m better off than having a "friend" like her. I agree.

 

[princessplease]

I dislike quite a few people, but hate only one.

My dad''s ex wife, who was physically abusive to my younger brother when he was 5-7 IN FRONT OF ME!!!!!

I wish things upon her that are too cruel to type....

 

[lilyfoot]

No, I don''t hate anyone.

 

[House Cat]

Date: 5/30/2010 1:13:22 PM
Author: Steal

Date: 5/30/2010 12:31:06 PM
Author: Diamond*Dana

People would be shocked at the things I wish would happen to the monster that murdered my cousin and tore up our family. I just cannot forgive that...I''ve tried, but I can''t.

I don''t believe in Karma. I don''t believe in ''just deserts''. But I do believe that society shelters many creatures that are sub-human whose behaviour deserves nothing less than death. I''m sorry for your loss, which should not have happened.

Yes. You have put my feelings into words so perfectly.


I hate the man who raped me. In just a few moments, this person changed my very soul. I''d like to say he didn''t, that I was stronger than that, but I can''t. It has taken years of suffering, years of specialized therapy for PTSD, living with three dogs and a former marine to even have some semblance of safety. I still don''t feel safe in my own skin some of the time.

I hate my bio-dad''s wife. When I was 8, she was jealous of me. She made my dad choose between the two of us. I lost.

 

[Steel]

Date: 6/1/2010 1:56:59 PM
Author: House Cat

Date: 5/30/2010 1:13:22 PM
Author: Steal

Date: 5/30/2010 12:31:06 PM
Author: Diamond*Dana

People would be shocked at the things I wish would happen to the monster that murdered my cousin and tore up our family. I just cannot forgive that...I''ve tried, but I can''t.

I don''t believe in Karma. I don''t believe in ''just deserts''. But I do believe that society shelters many creatures that are sub-human whose behaviour deserves nothing less than death. I''m sorry for your loss, which should not have happened.

Yes. You have put my feelings into words so perfectly.


I hate the man who raped me. In just a few moments, this person changed my very soul. I''d like to say he didn''t, that I was stronger than that, but I can''t. It has taken years of suffering, years of specialized therapy for PTSD, living with three dogs and a former marine to even have some semblance of safety. I still don''t feel safe in my own skin some of the time.

I hate my bio-dad''s wife. When I was 8, she was jealous of me. She made my dad choose between the two of us. I lost.

I don''t even know how to reply save that, I wish that you had not been raped House Cat.

As for your dad''s wife; she didn''t win; no man that chooses a woman over his daughter is a prize worth winning.

 

[soocool]

My MIL!

 

[Liane]

I hate lots of people. LOTS of people. I''m not even sorry about it, because I get a good deal of motivation and drive out of my hatred for them; I wouldn''t be half as productive if I didn''t have the red-hot fires of fury to keep me going.

I''m not sure I''d recommend a rage-driven life to anyone else, but it''s worked well for me.