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Yeah, I wonder that often too.Date: 4/4/2009 8:35:12 AM
Author: thing2of2
Why do you ask sexist questions?
MUCH better than the horoscope!!!Date: 4/4/2009 3:29:42 AM
Author:Dancing Fire
Date: 4/4/2009 9:53:57 AM
Author: gwendolyn
Date: 4/4/2009 8:35:12 AM
Author: thing2of2
Why do you ask sexist questions?
Yeah, I wonder that often too.
I have to agree with Tuckins1's explanation. Sometimes people just need to know there are others out there who feel the same way they do before they're able to take action. No matter if they take the advice or not, at the least I think it helps the poster take a deep look inside themselves and/or their relationship.Date: 4/4/2009 8:45:43 AM
Author: Tuckins1
I think PEOPLE who post serious topics about life decisions (for the most part) have already made up their minds, and are just looking for validation. Sometimes people do agree with them, so the poster feels validated and supported in his/her decision. Sometimes (as has happened of late) the poster does not get the response he/she is looking for, and becomes defensive and upset. I don't think that anyone is going to let perfect strangers make serious life decisions FOR them, they are just looking for validation for what they have already decided to do.
Naughty, naughty, DF! You aren''t supposed to be in here with the impressionable young LIWs. You''re gonna get in trouble...Date: 4/4/2009 3:29:42 AM
Author:Dancing Fire
Date: 4/4/2009 11:20:11 AM
Author: equestrienne
Yeah, DF, what are you doing in LIW??Date: 4/4/2009 3:29:42 AM
Naughty, naughty, DF! You aren''t supposed to be in here with the impressionable young LIWs. You''re gonna get in trouble...
BINGO!! TuckinsDate: 4/4/2009 8:45:43 AM
Author: Tuckins1
I think PEOPLE who post serious topics about life decisions (for the most part) have already made up their minds, and are just looking for validation. Sometimes people do agree with them, so the poster feels validated and supported in his/her decision. Sometimes (as has happened of late) the poster does not get the response he/she is looking for, and becomes defensive and upset. I don''t think that anyone is going to let perfect strangers make serious life decisions FOR them, they are just looking for validation for what they have already decided to do.
Date: 4/4/2009 4:17:39 PM
Author: Dancing Fire
BINGO!! TuckinsDate: 4/4/2009 8:45:43 AM
Author: Tuckins1
I think PEOPLE who post serious topics about life decisions (for the most part) have already made up their minds, and are just looking for validation. Sometimes people do agree with them, so the poster feels validated and supported in his/her decision. Sometimes (as has happened of late) the poster does not get the response he/she is looking for, and becomes defensive and upset. I don't think that anyone is going to let perfect strangers make serious life decisions FOR them, they are just looking for validation for what they have already decided to do.
Date: 4/4/2009 11:53:50 AM
Author: mscushion
just wanna introduce myself to LIW.Date: 4/4/2009 11:20:11 AM
Author: equestrienne
Yeah, DF, what are you doing in LIW??Date: 4/4/2009 3:29:42 AM
Naughty, naughty, DF! You aren''t supposed to be in here with the impressionable young LIWs. You''re gonna get in trouble...
Date: 4/4/2009 7:56:27 PM
Author: SailorsSweet<3
... which is the same as many 'girlfriend' relationships women have throughout their lifetime. Why do you think there was such a big hype about 'hes just not that into you'? Validation is a huge part of social units and whether its from public forms, from your mom, from your best friend or from your cousins best friend's gay roommate. A lot of people search for reassurance in should it really matter if you get sugar coated information from a good girl friend who knows shes feeding you 'happy lies' or from an online identity? Although it may make it easier to feed happy lies more easily as an anonymous poster it also is much easier to tell it to people straight. I think some people need to hear what is written on this form because they're surrounded by too many people who think they're doing them good by telling them 'its ok' or leading them to believe that THEIR behavior is OK in their relationship. An anonymous 3rd party opinion is often refreshing, I feel.
Date: 4/4/2009 7:56:27 PM
Author: SailorsSweet<3
Date: 4/4/2009 4:17:39 PM
Author: Dancing Fire
BINGO!! TuckinsDate: 4/4/2009 8:45:43 AM
Author: Tuckins1
I think PEOPLE who post serious topics about life decisions (for the most part) have already made up their minds, and are just looking for validation. Sometimes people do agree with them, so the poster feels validated and supported in his/her decision. Sometimes (as has happened of late) the poster does not get the response he/she is looking for, and becomes defensive and upset. I don't think that anyone is going to let perfect strangers make serious life decisions FOR them, they are just looking for validation for what they have already decided to do.
... which is the same as many 'girlfriend' relationships women have throughout their lifetime. Why do you think there was such a big hype about 'hes just not that into you'? Validation is a huge part of social units and whether its from public forms, from your mom, from your best friend or from your cousins best friend's gay roommate. A lot of people search for reassurance in should it really matter if you get sugar coated information from a good girl friend who knows shes feeding you 'happy lies' or from an online identity? Although it may make it easier to feed happy lies more easily as an anonymous poster it also is much easier to tell it to people straight. I think some people need to hear what is written on this form because they're surrounded by too many people who think they're doing them good by telling them 'its ok' or leading them to believe that THEIR behavior is OK in their relationship. An anonymous 3rd party opinion is often refreshing, I feel.
musey- You''re lucky we didn''t advise you to marry DF! Be glad that we like youDate: 4/5/2009 9:10:14 PM
Author: musey
Yes. I base all my life decisions upon what the PS Gods advise.
ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Date: 4/5/2009 9:31:27 PM
Author: icekid
musey- You''re lucky we didn''t advise you to marry DF! Be glad that we like youDate: 4/5/2009 9:10:14 PM
Author: musey
Yes. I base all my life decisions upon what the PS Gods advise.
Date: 4/5/2009 10:25:35 PM
Author: FrekeChild
ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Date: 4/5/2009 9:31:27 PM
Author: icekid
musey- You''re lucky we didn''t advise you to marry DF! Be glad that we like youDate: 4/5/2009 9:10:14 PM
Author: musey
Yes. I base all my life decisions upon what the PS Gods advise.
Yeah musey, you got off easy!
hey,at least i love diamonds.Date: 4/5/2009 9:31:27 PM
Author: icekid
musey- You''re lucky we didn''t advise you to marry DF! Be glad that we like youDate: 4/5/2009 9:10:14 PM
Author: musey
Yes. I base all my life decisions upon what the PS Gods advise.